I received many excellent comments on the first five of ten books, I recommended. Some of you suggested your own favorite books and I added them to my list. I hope you like the next five books just as well. They are not all religious but I hope you will find them all interesting.
One fascinating little tidbit: Eight of the ten books on this list were purchased and read on my Kindle, an electronic reading device. Times have changed.
With each book I'll enclose information gathered from the cover or various reviews followed by my comments: "Why I recommend this book."
"Sticky Church" by Larry Osborne. Author and pastor Larry Osborne makes the case that closing the back door of your church is even more important than opening the front door wider. He offers a time-tested strategy for doing so: sermon-based small groups that dig deeper into the weekend message and tightly velcro members to the ministry. It's a strategy that enabled Osborn's congregation to grow from a handful of people to one of the larger churches in the nation without any marketing or special programming. Sticky Church tells the inspiring story of North Coast Church's phenomenal growth and offers practical tips for launching your own sermon-based small group ministry. Topics include: Why stickiness is so important Why most of our discipleship models don't work very well. Why small groups always make a church more honest and transparent. What makes groups grow deeper and stickier over time. "Sticky Church" is an ideal book for church leaders who want to start or retool their small group ministry and velcro their congregation to the Bible and each other.
Why I recommend this book. As a pastor, I've helplessly watched interested visitors come in through our front doors only to disappear several weeks later. "Sticky Church" contains practical, easy to apply ideas that work for any size congregation.
"The Overload Syndrome: Learning to Live Within Your Limits" by Richard A. Swenson, MD. Do you dread going to work? Are your relationships strained from stress? Do you wish you could check into a hospital just to get some sleep? Busyness. Stress. Overload. Anyone living in today's society knows the struggle of trying to handle the demands of life. You don't have enough time to do the things you have to do - let alone those things you would like to do. You feel tired, worn out, and burned out. You're not alone. These symptoms are not a figment of your imagination. They're signs that you're suffering from a virulent new disease that affects millions of people - The Overload Syndrome.
Why I recommend this book. First, this is not a new book and it's only one book in a series but these ideas are timeless. If you are facing stress at work and home, "The Overload Syndrome" can change your life. Richard Swenson is a physician and a pastor who has a unique ability to combine spirituality with sound medical advice.
"Breaking the Missional Code: Your Church Can Become a Missionary in Your Community" by Ed Stetzer and David Putman. Across North America, many pastors are excited to see churches growing as they achieve their mission to connect the message of the gospel with the community at large. Still others are equally frustrated, following the exact same model for outreach but with lesser results. Indeed, just because a "missional breakthrough" occurs in one place doesn't mean it will happen the same way elsewhere. One size does not fit all, but there are cultural codes that must be broken for all churches to grow and remain effective in their specific mission context. Breaking the Missional Code provides expert insight on church culture and church vision casting, plus case studies of successful missional churches impacting their communities. "We have to recognize there are cultural barriers (in addition to spiritual ones) that blind people from understanding the gospel," the authors write. "Our task is to find the right way to break through those cultural barriers without removing the spiritual and theological ones."
"Why I recommend this book." Many of our churches have lost contact with the neighborhoods surrounding them. "Breaking the Missional Code offers answers that can be applied in almost any church setting.
"Real Church: Does it Exist? Can I find it?" By Dr. Larry Crabb. "Church as I know it usually leaves deep parts of me dormant, unawakened, and untouched. I don't much like going. So, what now?"What's happening to the Church? Why are so many people who for decades have been faithful, steady churchgoers (and others who want to start going to church but can't seem to find one that meets their needs) losing interest in even attending church, let alone getting involved? What is fundamentally wrong with the "types" of churches (Seeker, Bible, Emergent, Liberal, Evangelical) that dot the religious landscape? Larry Crabb believes it is time to rethink the entire foundation and focus of what we know today as church -- everything we're doing and are wanting to see happen. In his most honest and vulnerable book to date, the author reveals his own struggles in this area and then offers a compelling vision of why God designed us to live in community with Him and others, and what the church he wants to be a part of looks like.
"Why I recommend this book." This book was hard for me to read; like taking medicine that tastes awful but you must take it just the same. Larry Crabb bluntly challenges churches everywhere to rethink the way they do church.
"Super Freakonomics: Global Cooling, Patriotic Prostitutes and Why Suicide Bombers Should Buy Life Insurance" by Steven D. Levitt and Stephen J. Dubner. The New York Times best-selling Freakonomics was a worldwide sensation, selling over four million copies in thirty-five languages and changing the way we look at the world. Now, Steven D. Levitt and Stephen J. Dubner return with SuperFreakonomics. Four years in the making, SuperFreakonomics asks not only the tough questions, but the unexpected ones: What's more dangerous, driving drunk or walking drunk? Why is chemotherapy prescribed so often if it's so ineffective? SuperFreakonomics challenges the way we think all over again, exploring the hidden side of everything with such questions as: How is a street prostitute like a department-store Santa? Why are doctors so bad at washing their hands? How much good do car seats do? What's the best way to catch a terrorist? Did TV cause a rise in crime? What do hurricanes, heart attacks, and highway deaths have in common? Are people hard-wired for altruism or selfishness? Can eating kangaroo save the planet? Which adds more value: a pimp or a Realtor? Levitt and Dubner mix smart thinking and great storytelling like no one else. By examining how people respond to incentives, they show the world for what it really is - good, bad, ugly, and, in the final analysis, super freaky.
"Why I recommend this book." I almost did not recommend this book because it has nothing to do with religion and at times seems - well, strange. Yet, "Super Freakonomics" forces you to look at many of our problems in a different way. After reading this book, you will see people and the world we live from a different perspective.
Well here are my 10 for now but I'm looking to add ten more very soon. Comments are welcome.
Tuesday, August 31, 2010
Monday, August 30, 2010
10 Books to Read for 2010
I have a reputation for saying: "I may not know the answer but I can suggest a book." In other words, I read a lot and enjoy recommending books to others. At any church where I pastor, I always set up a table full of free books. It's my way of giving and offering helpful advice.
So, I want to recommend ten books, I found particularly helpful. They are not all religious books but I found these ten particularly interesting and unique. The books listed are in no particular order. With each book I'll enclose information gleaned off the cover or a website followed by my comments: "Why I recommend this book."
"Does Your Church Have A Prayer?: In Mission Toward the Promised Land" by Marc Brown, Kathy Merry and John Briggs. Congregations seeking revitalization can take heart. Jesus has already prayed for their unity so they may share his love with the world! The DOES YOUR CHURCH HAVE A PRAYER? Leader's Guide presents a model of Christian transformation to guide a congregation through a journey of spiritual renewal in fulfillment of Jesus' prayer in John 17. The Leader's Guide begins with a number of biblical examples of spiritual leadership. Referring to these models, the authors offer pastors important thoughts on choosing, equipping, and encouraging leaders to collaborate with them as they enter a time of discernment. By applying biblical principles through this intentional process of congregational engagement, churches will understand their calling as they move from a wilderness of inward focus to God's Promised Land of Jesus' disciples.
"Why I recommend this book." Pastors should first read "Does Your Church Have A Prayer," then study it further with a group of leaders and finally present the results to the entire church. Most "church growth" books provide a single formula but "Does Your Church Have A Prayer," helps each church discover their own unique formula through Bible study and discerning prayer. When the study is concluded, your church should have a vision and a plan for action.
"UnChristian: What New Generation Really Thinks About Christianity and Why It Matters" by David Kinnaman and Gabe Lyons. Kinnaman, president of the Barna Institute, was inspired to write this book when he was asked to do extensive research on what young Americans think about Christianity. Lyons had a gut-level sense that something was desperately wrong, and three years of research paints exactly that picture. Mosaics and Busters (the generations that include late teens to early 30-somethings) believe Christians are judgmental, anti-homosexual, hypocritical, too political and sheltered. Rather than simply do a PR face-lift, Kinnaman looks at ways in which churches' activities actually may have been unchristian and encourages a return to a more biblical Christianity, a faith that not only focuses on holiness but also loves, accepts and works to understand the world around it. It would be possible to get lost in the numbers, but the authors use numerous illustrations from their research and life experiences and include insights at the end of every chapter from Christian leaders like Charles Colson, John Stott, Brian McLaren and Jim Wallis. This is a wonderful, thoughtful book that conveys difficult truths in a spirit of humility. Every Christian should read this, and it will likely influence churches for years to come.
"Why I recommend this book." If you are interested in reaching beyond the four walls of your church, this is a must-read. More than any other resource, "UnChristian reveals what others, who are not in your church, really think -- about church, about God and about churched people. The answers aren't always easy to hear but it's critical information every church leader needs to understand. No missionary would enter another country without first studying the history and culture of the people they will work with. "Un-Christian" provides the history and culture of those we must reach if our churches are to have any success in following Christ's command to go out into the world and make disciples.
"Change Is Like a Slinky: 30 Strategies for Promoting and Surviving Change in Your Organization" by Hans Finzel. A practical guide to navigate change in today's organizational climate. "Change or perish" seems to be the mantra for leaders in all types of organizations. But how does one adapt to such fast and furious change? Hans Finzel provides a proven strategy in Change is Like a Slinky, exploring the six major phases in the cycle of change. As he says, 'Change is a lot like a Slinky...A slinky can be a lot of fun, but it is also completely unpredictable.' Instead of grudgingly wading through inevitable change, readers will find themselves equipped and fired up to tackle it head on.
"Why I recommend this book." I was so impressed with "Change Is Like A Slinky," I gave away nearly one hundred copies to people I work with. Every organization whether church or business must continuously deal with change. Once you accept the need for change you then move to, "How?" This book gives 30 answers on "How to accomplish change." Each of the thirty strategies are short, helpful and easy to understand. This is a must read book for anyone in leadership.
"Have a Little Faith: A True Story" by Mitch Albom. What if our beliefs were not what divided us, but what pulled us together? A beautifully written story of a remarkable eight-year journey between two worlds--two men, two faiths, two communities--that will inspire readers everywhere. Have a Little Faith begins with an unusual request: an eighty-two-year-old rabbi from Albom's old hometown asks him to deliver his eulogy. Feeling unworthy, Albom insists on understanding the man better, which throws him back into a world of faith he'd left years ago. Meanwhile, closer to his current home, Albom becomes involved with a Detroit pastor--a reformed drug dealer and convict--who preaches to the poor and homeless in a decaying church with a hole in its roof. Moving between their worlds, Christian and Jewish, African-American and white, impoverished and well-to-do, Albom observes how these very different men employ faith similarly in fighting for survival: the older, suburban rabbi embracing it as death approaches; the younger, inner-city pastor relying on it to keep himself and his church afloat. Have a Little Faith is a book about a life's purpose; about losing belief and finding it again; about the divine spark inside us all. It is one man's journey, but it is everyone's story.
"Why I recommend this book." I don't agree with the theology of "Have a Little Faith" but this book is not about theology. If you want to understand how people struggle with faith issues you will appreciate and learn from the characters within this story.
"Three Cups of Tea: One Man's Mission to Promote Peace... One School at a Time" by Greg Mortenson and David Oliver Relin. Some failures lead to phenomenal successes, and this American nurse's unsuccessful attempt to climb K2, the world's second tallest mountain, is one of them. Dangerously ill when he finished his climb in 1993, Mortenson was sheltered for seven weeks by the small Pakistani village of Korphe; in return, he promised to build the impoverished town's first school, a project that grew into the Central Asia Institute, which has since constructed more than 50 schools across rural Pakistan and Afghanistan. Coauthor Relin recounts Mortenson's efforts in fascinating detail, presenting compelling portraits of the village elders, con artists, philanthropists, mujahideen, Taliban officials, ambitious school girls and upright Muslims Mortenson met along the way. As the book moves into the post-9/11 world, Mortenson and Relin argue that the United States must fight Islamic extremism in the region through collaborative efforts to alleviate poverty and improve access to education, especially for girls. Captivating and suspenseful, with engrossing accounts of both hostilities and unlikely friendships, this book will win many readers' hearts.
"Why I recommend this book." If you want to understand and better appreciate the culture of Afghanistan and Pakistan, this is a must-read book. If you are asking the question: "How can one person make a difference in another community, this is a must-read book. Note: I'm a little behind on this one. Greg Mortenson has a new book out called "Stones Into Schools: Promoting Peace with Books, not Bombs in Afghanistan and Pakistan."
Tomorrow: Five more books for 2010.
So, I want to recommend ten books, I found particularly helpful. They are not all religious books but I found these ten particularly interesting and unique. The books listed are in no particular order. With each book I'll enclose information gleaned off the cover or a website followed by my comments: "Why I recommend this book."
"Does Your Church Have A Prayer?: In Mission Toward the Promised Land" by Marc Brown, Kathy Merry and John Briggs. Congregations seeking revitalization can take heart. Jesus has already prayed for their unity so they may share his love with the world! The DOES YOUR CHURCH HAVE A PRAYER? Leader's Guide presents a model of Christian transformation to guide a congregation through a journey of spiritual renewal in fulfillment of Jesus' prayer in John 17. The Leader's Guide begins with a number of biblical examples of spiritual leadership. Referring to these models, the authors offer pastors important thoughts on choosing, equipping, and encouraging leaders to collaborate with them as they enter a time of discernment. By applying biblical principles through this intentional process of congregational engagement, churches will understand their calling as they move from a wilderness of inward focus to God's Promised Land of Jesus' disciples.
"Why I recommend this book." Pastors should first read "Does Your Church Have A Prayer," then study it further with a group of leaders and finally present the results to the entire church. Most "church growth" books provide a single formula but "Does Your Church Have A Prayer," helps each church discover their own unique formula through Bible study and discerning prayer. When the study is concluded, your church should have a vision and a plan for action.
"UnChristian: What New Generation Really Thinks About Christianity and Why It Matters" by David Kinnaman and Gabe Lyons. Kinnaman, president of the Barna Institute, was inspired to write this book when he was asked to do extensive research on what young Americans think about Christianity. Lyons had a gut-level sense that something was desperately wrong, and three years of research paints exactly that picture. Mosaics and Busters (the generations that include late teens to early 30-somethings) believe Christians are judgmental, anti-homosexual, hypocritical, too political and sheltered. Rather than simply do a PR face-lift, Kinnaman looks at ways in which churches' activities actually may have been unchristian and encourages a return to a more biblical Christianity, a faith that not only focuses on holiness but also loves, accepts and works to understand the world around it. It would be possible to get lost in the numbers, but the authors use numerous illustrations from their research and life experiences and include insights at the end of every chapter from Christian leaders like Charles Colson, John Stott, Brian McLaren and Jim Wallis. This is a wonderful, thoughtful book that conveys difficult truths in a spirit of humility. Every Christian should read this, and it will likely influence churches for years to come.
"Why I recommend this book." If you are interested in reaching beyond the four walls of your church, this is a must-read. More than any other resource, "UnChristian reveals what others, who are not in your church, really think -- about church, about God and about churched people. The answers aren't always easy to hear but it's critical information every church leader needs to understand. No missionary would enter another country without first studying the history and culture of the people they will work with. "Un-Christian" provides the history and culture of those we must reach if our churches are to have any success in following Christ's command to go out into the world and make disciples.
"Change Is Like a Slinky: 30 Strategies for Promoting and Surviving Change in Your Organization" by Hans Finzel. A practical guide to navigate change in today's organizational climate. "Change or perish" seems to be the mantra for leaders in all types of organizations. But how does one adapt to such fast and furious change? Hans Finzel provides a proven strategy in Change is Like a Slinky, exploring the six major phases in the cycle of change. As he says, 'Change is a lot like a Slinky...A slinky can be a lot of fun, but it is also completely unpredictable.' Instead of grudgingly wading through inevitable change, readers will find themselves equipped and fired up to tackle it head on.
"Why I recommend this book." I was so impressed with "Change Is Like A Slinky," I gave away nearly one hundred copies to people I work with. Every organization whether church or business must continuously deal with change. Once you accept the need for change you then move to, "How?" This book gives 30 answers on "How to accomplish change." Each of the thirty strategies are short, helpful and easy to understand. This is a must read book for anyone in leadership.
"Have a Little Faith: A True Story" by Mitch Albom. What if our beliefs were not what divided us, but what pulled us together? A beautifully written story of a remarkable eight-year journey between two worlds--two men, two faiths, two communities--that will inspire readers everywhere. Have a Little Faith begins with an unusual request: an eighty-two-year-old rabbi from Albom's old hometown asks him to deliver his eulogy. Feeling unworthy, Albom insists on understanding the man better, which throws him back into a world of faith he'd left years ago. Meanwhile, closer to his current home, Albom becomes involved with a Detroit pastor--a reformed drug dealer and convict--who preaches to the poor and homeless in a decaying church with a hole in its roof. Moving between their worlds, Christian and Jewish, African-American and white, impoverished and well-to-do, Albom observes how these very different men employ faith similarly in fighting for survival: the older, suburban rabbi embracing it as death approaches; the younger, inner-city pastor relying on it to keep himself and his church afloat. Have a Little Faith is a book about a life's purpose; about losing belief and finding it again; about the divine spark inside us all. It is one man's journey, but it is everyone's story.
"Why I recommend this book." I don't agree with the theology of "Have a Little Faith" but this book is not about theology. If you want to understand how people struggle with faith issues you will appreciate and learn from the characters within this story.
"Three Cups of Tea: One Man's Mission to Promote Peace... One School at a Time" by Greg Mortenson and David Oliver Relin. Some failures lead to phenomenal successes, and this American nurse's unsuccessful attempt to climb K2, the world's second tallest mountain, is one of them. Dangerously ill when he finished his climb in 1993, Mortenson was sheltered for seven weeks by the small Pakistani village of Korphe; in return, he promised to build the impoverished town's first school, a project that grew into the Central Asia Institute, which has since constructed more than 50 schools across rural Pakistan and Afghanistan. Coauthor Relin recounts Mortenson's efforts in fascinating detail, presenting compelling portraits of the village elders, con artists, philanthropists, mujahideen, Taliban officials, ambitious school girls and upright Muslims Mortenson met along the way. As the book moves into the post-9/11 world, Mortenson and Relin argue that the United States must fight Islamic extremism in the region through collaborative efforts to alleviate poverty and improve access to education, especially for girls. Captivating and suspenseful, with engrossing accounts of both hostilities and unlikely friendships, this book will win many readers' hearts.
"Why I recommend this book." If you want to understand and better appreciate the culture of Afghanistan and Pakistan, this is a must-read book. If you are asking the question: "How can one person make a difference in another community, this is a must-read book. Note: I'm a little behind on this one. Greg Mortenson has a new book out called "Stones Into Schools: Promoting Peace with Books, not Bombs in Afghanistan and Pakistan."
Tomorrow: Five more books for 2010.
Sunday, August 29, 2010
A Gorilla and a Marriage Proposal
"You have a guest speaker," the principal informed a kindergarten teacher. "He is an education student who will be demonstrating a sample lesson on storytelling to young children. The session needs to be videotaped and your kindergarten class will make a perfect audience. Do you mind helping out?"
"I will be happy to help," replied the teacher.
"Oh, by the way, the student will be in some sort of costume, a gorilla or something."
Indeed, later that day a gorilla did visit the kindergarten class and told several stories to the delight of the children, but then something very strange happened. The gorilla approached the teacher, dropped down on one knee and offered a box of Cracker Jacks.
The teacher's jaw dropped as she reached into the box and pulled out an engagement ring.
"Will you marry me?" said the gorilla.
Whether describing a relationship between a husband and wife, close friends or God, no verb is mentioned in the Bible more than love: over 800 times. One of our greatest commandments is to "love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, all your strength, and all your mind. And 'love your neighbor as yourself.'" (Luke 10:27)
To love someone is to offer up your ultimate expression of loyalty, passion and creativity. Love can be described in many ways, but one of them should never include the word, dull! In other words, it's okay to be a little 'gorilla-crazy' when you're in love. Do you need some examples?
Has the love between Mell and I always been this wild? No. That is where another aspect of a loving relationship becomes important -- forgiveness. I’ll save that one for another column.
"I will be happy to help," replied the teacher.
"Oh, by the way, the student will be in some sort of costume, a gorilla or something."
Indeed, later that day a gorilla did visit the kindergarten class and told several stories to the delight of the children, but then something very strange happened. The gorilla approached the teacher, dropped down on one knee and offered a box of Cracker Jacks.
The teacher's jaw dropped as she reached into the box and pulled out an engagement ring.
"Will you marry me?" said the gorilla.
Whether describing a relationship between a husband and wife, close friends or God, no verb is mentioned in the Bible more than love: over 800 times. One of our greatest commandments is to "love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, all your strength, and all your mind. And 'love your neighbor as yourself.'" (Luke 10:27)
To love someone is to offer up your ultimate expression of loyalty, passion and creativity. Love can be described in many ways, but one of them should never include the word, dull! In other words, it's okay to be a little 'gorilla-crazy' when you're in love. Do you need some examples?
- David passionately danced before the Lord while bringing in the Ark. (2 Samuel 6:14)
- Jesus said, "unless you have the faith of a child, you will never get into the kingdom of God. (Mark 10:15)
- The woman who poured expensive oils and perfume on Jesus feet and wiped them with her hair. (John 12:1-8)
- When Peter saw the risen Jesus he leaped from the boat and swam to shore. (John 21:7)
There is the warning in Revelation: "I know all the things you do, that you are neither hot nor cold. I wish you were one or the other! But since you are like lukewarm, I will spit you out of my mouth!" (3:15-16)
Are you one-half of a lukewarm couple? Do you belong to a lukewarm church? Are your friendships lukewarm? More importantly, could your personal relationship with the God who loves you so passionately be described as (gulp) lukewarm? Could it be time to seek forgiveness for your lack of passion and creativity? Then you could pray that God brings out the 'gorilla' in you.
If you haven't guessed the ending to the story yet, the kindergarten teacher said yes to the gorilla and kissed him while the children cheered. A few months later her kindergarten class was given special seats at the wedding. How do I know? That kindergarten teacher is Mell Davies and we've been married for nineteen amazing years.
Friday, August 27, 2010
A Tale of Two Restaurants - Part 2
A reader asked: “How do you get others to hunger for a right spiritual relationship with God with the same desire?” The answer has a lot to do with the treatment my wife and I received looking for a place to eat at two different restaurants: one excellent and one awful. We can learn from both experiences.
But the best part of the story is yet to come. When we came back to the first restaurant where the hostess was so helpful, she recognized and greeted us by name like old friends. Then, she introduced us to our waitress with the reminder: if we needed anything to let her know.
The waitress was friendly but nervous. As she came by carrying a tray full of water glasses, she tripped and the whole tray, water and all landed on our table, soaking everything but just missing us. She let out a loud gasp but then the entire restaurant staff sprung into action. While the waitress profusely apologized, one employee removed the mess and wiped everything down. Another swooped in with a fresh tablecloth and within seconds we were back in our seat as if nothing happened.
It could have been a disaster, but everyone was so apologetic we all ended up laughing. Later, the manager offered her own apology and gave us a free desert. We were really enjoying all the attention.
For the rest of the week, we ate all of our meals there and told others at the conference about the good food and extraordinary service of this restaurant. Often we waited in line to receive a seat but we never complained because we always found the experience worth the wait.
Occasionally we would pass by the other restaurant where we had been mistreated and often saw the same employee, sitting in front of the TV all alone with absolutely nothing to do.
“How do you get others to hunger for a right spiritual relationship with God with the same desire?”
The two restaurants illustrate the difference between what “Disney, Inc.” called “magic moments” where you are warmly welcomed and feel appreciated or “tragic moments” that leave you feeling neglected and ignored. The secret to offering “magic moments” is to understand what someone needs and then try to exceed expectations. One restaurant succeeded because they specialized in “magic moments.”
Our churches have the same opportunity by offering a warm welcome and a genuine interest in those who enter, those who live nearby and anyone else we come in contact with. In other words, we work to understand people’s needs and through our best efforts combined with God’s grace strive to exceed their expectations. The last thing Jesus said to his disciples was, “go and make disciples of all the nations.” (Matthew 28:19) We are given a challenge to offer our own “magic moments” through the power of God.
What would a church be like if they took this attitude seriously? Would people want to go there all the time? Would they tell others about the warm hospitality and generous spirit of the people there? Would they wait in line for a seat but never complain because they found the experience worth the wait?
Or, you could pass by another church where you had been coldly received. Maybe that same employee from the other restaurant would be there -- sitting in front of the TV all alone with absolutely nothing to do.
Question: If someone encounters you on the street or enters your church will they be offered:
Can you imagine the difference this attitude would make in your church, in your home, in your life? Well, all this talk of restaurants and food made me hungry. Does anyone know where to get a good sandwich?
But the best part of the story is yet to come. When we came back to the first restaurant where the hostess was so helpful, she recognized and greeted us by name like old friends. Then, she introduced us to our waitress with the reminder: if we needed anything to let her know.
The waitress was friendly but nervous. As she came by carrying a tray full of water glasses, she tripped and the whole tray, water and all landed on our table, soaking everything but just missing us. She let out a loud gasp but then the entire restaurant staff sprung into action. While the waitress profusely apologized, one employee removed the mess and wiped everything down. Another swooped in with a fresh tablecloth and within seconds we were back in our seat as if nothing happened.
It could have been a disaster, but everyone was so apologetic we all ended up laughing. Later, the manager offered her own apology and gave us a free desert. We were really enjoying all the attention.
For the rest of the week, we ate all of our meals there and told others at the conference about the good food and extraordinary service of this restaurant. Often we waited in line to receive a seat but we never complained because we always found the experience worth the wait.
Occasionally we would pass by the other restaurant where we had been mistreated and often saw the same employee, sitting in front of the TV all alone with absolutely nothing to do.
“How do you get others to hunger for a right spiritual relationship with God with the same desire?”
The two restaurants illustrate the difference between what “Disney, Inc.” called “magic moments” where you are warmly welcomed and feel appreciated or “tragic moments” that leave you feeling neglected and ignored. The secret to offering “magic moments” is to understand what someone needs and then try to exceed expectations. One restaurant succeeded because they specialized in “magic moments.”
Our churches have the same opportunity by offering a warm welcome and a genuine interest in those who enter, those who live nearby and anyone else we come in contact with. In other words, we work to understand people’s needs and through our best efforts combined with God’s grace strive to exceed their expectations. The last thing Jesus said to his disciples was, “go and make disciples of all the nations.” (Matthew 28:19) We are given a challenge to offer our own “magic moments” through the power of God.
What would a church be like if they took this attitude seriously? Would people want to go there all the time? Would they tell others about the warm hospitality and generous spirit of the people there? Would they wait in line for a seat but never complain because they found the experience worth the wait?
Or, you could pass by another church where you had been coldly received. Maybe that same employee from the other restaurant would be there -- sitting in front of the TV all alone with absolutely nothing to do.
Question: If someone encounters you on the street or enters your church will they be offered:
- Tragic Moment “What are you doing here? Why are you bothering me?”
- No Moment “Maybe if I don’t speak, he/she will go away.”
- Magic Moment “I’m so glad to see you. Tell me how you have been doing?”
Can you imagine the difference this attitude would make in your church, in your home, in your life? Well, all this talk of restaurants and food made me hungry. Does anyone know where to get a good sandwich?
Thursday, August 26, 2010
A Tale of Two Restaurants
Recently, I wrote about eating delicious barbecue and receiving encouragement. One reader sent the following comment: “PIERCE'S Pit Cooked BBQ is worth the trip. Food for thought: How do you get others to hunger for a right spiritual relationship with God with the same desire?” -- Kim
Good question. “How do you get others to hunger for a right spiritual relationship with God with the same desire?” One answer is through another story.
Mell (my wife) and I were attending a conference at Disney World in Florida. (Yeah, yeah, it’s a tough job but someone has to do it.) Part of the conference training was to better understand the “Disney” way of providing more than expected when it came to entertainment and service. I found myself asking: Why? Why would someone travel hundreds or thousands of miles at great expense to visit Disney World?
The answer given by the Disney folks was: “Our ultimate aim is to provide ‘Magic Moments’ within every part of your journey through Walt Disney World from the time you enter to the time you leave.”
I certainly wanted to test this ‘Magic Moment’ idea out but how? When the class ended, Mell and I were hungry and wanted an early lunch so we wandered through the hotel lobby until we found a restaurant. “We’re closed now but should be open in 30 minutes.” The greeter said.
“We were hoping to eat an early lunch.” I replied.
“I’m sorry. However, another restaurant in this hotel is serving lunch now. Let me show you where it is.”
Immediately, she left her workstation and walked with us down to the other end of the hotel until we came in sight of a sandwich shop. She pointed to the restaurant, smiled and said, “I hope you enjoy your meal.” She then returned to her station. We were impressed. Why?
The sandwich shop was quiet and empty. We saw only one employee at the other end of the restaurant. He was bending over with his back to us fiddling with the controls of a big screen TV. He was obviously focused on something else, so I walked over and asked: “Where do we go to order lunch?”
He slowly turned around and gave us one of those, “why are you idiots bothering me?” looks and arrogantly pointed to the counter across the room. “Stand in line over there.” Then he turned back around continuing his attention to the big screen TV.
There were so many snide remarks, I could have said but instead we quietly walked across the room, then we turned, walked out the door and back down the corridor to the other restaurant. Why?
Of course the answer is 4, unless you happen to be a gourmet chef or fashion designer. We felt welcomed and valued in the first restaurant and decided it was worth waiting a few extra minutes.
Kim asked: “How do you get others to hunger for a right spiritual relationship with God with the same desire?” The answer has a lot to do with the treatment my wife and I received looking for a place to eat. We can learn from both experiences.
You could rightfully say, “Larry, this whole story sounds so commercial. We’re talking about helping others deepen their relationship with God not just finding a good place to eat.”
Yet, in the story of two restaurants in the midst of Walt Disney World, I discovered lessons that could help us understand the answer to Kim’s question: “How do you get others to hunger for a right spiritual relationship with God with the same desire?”
But the best part of the story is yet to come. When we returned to the other restaurant, we had quite an adventure and the “Magic Moments” continued.
Next: A Tale of Two Restaurants – Answers.
Good question. “How do you get others to hunger for a right spiritual relationship with God with the same desire?” One answer is through another story.
Mell (my wife) and I were attending a conference at Disney World in Florida. (Yeah, yeah, it’s a tough job but someone has to do it.) Part of the conference training was to better understand the “Disney” way of providing more than expected when it came to entertainment and service. I found myself asking: Why? Why would someone travel hundreds or thousands of miles at great expense to visit Disney World?
The answer given by the Disney folks was: “Our ultimate aim is to provide ‘Magic Moments’ within every part of your journey through Walt Disney World from the time you enter to the time you leave.”
I certainly wanted to test this ‘Magic Moment’ idea out but how? When the class ended, Mell and I were hungry and wanted an early lunch so we wandered through the hotel lobby until we found a restaurant. “We’re closed now but should be open in 30 minutes.” The greeter said.
“We were hoping to eat an early lunch.” I replied.
“I’m sorry. However, another restaurant in this hotel is serving lunch now. Let me show you where it is.”
Immediately, she left her workstation and walked with us down to the other end of the hotel until we came in sight of a sandwich shop. She pointed to the restaurant, smiled and said, “I hope you enjoy your meal.” She then returned to her station. We were impressed. Why?
- She had an “I’m so glad to see you” smile.
- She stepped away from her station to help.
- Rather than merely point she took the time to walk with us.
- She seemed to genuinely appreciate our presence.
Of course, the answer is 5, or all of the above. Is this what Disney Inc. means by seeking to provide “Magic Moments?”
- We didn’t like the station he chose on TV.
- Sandwiches just aren’t for me.
- The wallpaper colors clashed with our clothes.
- We were willing to wait so we could enjoy eating in the other restaurant.
Of course the answer is 4, unless you happen to be a gourmet chef or fashion designer. We felt welcomed and valued in the first restaurant and decided it was worth waiting a few extra minutes.
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
More on Healing
The last column on healing brought a lot of comments and questions. For example: “Why heal some but not others? I have never understood how little children can be so sick and are never healed, it hardly seems fair. (I know, life isn't fair) And there are others that skate through life destroying as they go and never have bad things happen to them, it all seems so wrong!” -- Karen
Karen, I’ve struggled with this question too. While the following story about a patient named Anne never specifically answered the question of why God heals some and not others, I received real insight on how God is involved even when healing by our definition never takes place.
Anne was brought to the hospital with an unknown infection in her knees and hips that was so severe; she had not been able to get out of bed for nearly a year. At the young age of forty-two, she was not only facing severe infection and extensive surgery but also a mountain of personal problems including drug abuse, family squabbles and a stack of unpaid bills. Anne was in a lot of trouble.
Routine blood tests in preparation for surgery revealed an added horror for our forty-two-year old sufferer. Anne was HIV positive and would likely develop full-blown symptoms of AIDS. Can you imagine that? She was already suffering from so much; now HIV/AIDS! The doctor wisely called for a chaplain to accompany her, which in this case was me. I wanted to help but how? What could I possibly say or do to ease Anne’s suffering?
I was approaching the end of three months of chaplain training required to become a pastor. I began the class as a brash young pastor who wanted to change the world. I would leave the hospital focusing more on changing me and leaving the “world changing” to God. I learned to deeply respect and admire the hard work, tough training and dedication of those in the medical field. But with all the training and the skills there is only so much healing, medical professionals can provide. The rest is up to the attitude of the patient and God.
The doctor quickly and efficiently explained to Anne the meaning of HIV/AIDS and the ramifications. Then she left. For nearly an hour Anne alternately talked and cried. She had been horribly abused much of her life and sought escape in abusive relationships and drugs. She hoped a local gang would satisfy her longing for friendship and love. By the time she realized her mistake, it was too late. The years of beatings, brutal sexual abuse and drugs took their toll.
At one point, Anne was filled with rage: at her family who abused her, her so-called friends who used her and even God for seemingly abandoning her. I had no answers. Soon she would face excruciating surgery followed by a long, painful recovery only to then face the reality of HIV/AIDS. What could any mere human being possibly say?
“Would you like to receive Holy Communion?”
She looked at me for the longest time. Then with the slightest trace of a smile and a tear beginning to run down her cheek, Anne nodded: yes!
Later, that night, amidst the busyness and noise of a large metropolitan hospital a struggling student chaplain and a deeply troubled woman discovered the words of comfort only God can give:
“Merciful God, we confess that we have not loved you with our whole heart. Forgive us we pray. Free us for joyful obedience, through Jesus Christ our Lord.. In the name of Jesus Christ you are forgiven. Christ has died; Christ is risen; Christ will come again. The body of Christ, given for you. The blood of Christ given for you. Amen.”
A hospital chaplain who thought he could do it all and a struggling woman who seemingly lost it all both discovered the greatest gift of all; the all-encompassing grace and comfort of God.
Several days later, following her knee and hip surgery, I was summoned to Anne’s room for a different purpose. She grasped my hand, looked at me with a smile and said: “I sensed the presence of God in the room that night during communion and for the first time in my life I felt truly loved. Thank you!”
I don’t know why God physically heals some and not others. Why some people receive more pain than any one person can possibly bear while others live virtually trouble-free. Maybe we’re asking the wrong question. The right question might be: Where is God in the midst of our troubles? Do we have a future to look forward too beyond the suffering we experience now?
On a dark night in the midst of a busy hospital Anne and I felt the healing presence and the awesome grace of almighty God. Our future felt secure even in the midst of struggle. Together we found hope.
“I have a surprise for you!” Anne, continued. She got out of the hospital bed and stood up triumphantly. Anne then asked me to escort her on the first real walk she had taken in over a year. Together we walked the length of the hospital corridor and back.
This time it was my turn to cry.
Karen, I’ve struggled with this question too. While the following story about a patient named Anne never specifically answered the question of why God heals some and not others, I received real insight on how God is involved even when healing by our definition never takes place.
Anne was brought to the hospital with an unknown infection in her knees and hips that was so severe; she had not been able to get out of bed for nearly a year. At the young age of forty-two, she was not only facing severe infection and extensive surgery but also a mountain of personal problems including drug abuse, family squabbles and a stack of unpaid bills. Anne was in a lot of trouble.
Routine blood tests in preparation for surgery revealed an added horror for our forty-two-year old sufferer. Anne was HIV positive and would likely develop full-blown symptoms of AIDS. Can you imagine that? She was already suffering from so much; now HIV/AIDS! The doctor wisely called for a chaplain to accompany her, which in this case was me. I wanted to help but how? What could I possibly say or do to ease Anne’s suffering?
I was approaching the end of three months of chaplain training required to become a pastor. I began the class as a brash young pastor who wanted to change the world. I would leave the hospital focusing more on changing me and leaving the “world changing” to God. I learned to deeply respect and admire the hard work, tough training and dedication of those in the medical field. But with all the training and the skills there is only so much healing, medical professionals can provide. The rest is up to the attitude of the patient and God.
The doctor quickly and efficiently explained to Anne the meaning of HIV/AIDS and the ramifications. Then she left. For nearly an hour Anne alternately talked and cried. She had been horribly abused much of her life and sought escape in abusive relationships and drugs. She hoped a local gang would satisfy her longing for friendship and love. By the time she realized her mistake, it was too late. The years of beatings, brutal sexual abuse and drugs took their toll.
At one point, Anne was filled with rage: at her family who abused her, her so-called friends who used her and even God for seemingly abandoning her. I had no answers. Soon she would face excruciating surgery followed by a long, painful recovery only to then face the reality of HIV/AIDS. What could any mere human being possibly say?
“Would you like to receive Holy Communion?”
She looked at me for the longest time. Then with the slightest trace of a smile and a tear beginning to run down her cheek, Anne nodded: yes!
Later, that night, amidst the busyness and noise of a large metropolitan hospital a struggling student chaplain and a deeply troubled woman discovered the words of comfort only God can give:
“Merciful God, we confess that we have not loved you with our whole heart. Forgive us we pray. Free us for joyful obedience, through Jesus Christ our Lord.. In the name of Jesus Christ you are forgiven. Christ has died; Christ is risen; Christ will come again. The body of Christ, given for you. The blood of Christ given for you. Amen.”
A hospital chaplain who thought he could do it all and a struggling woman who seemingly lost it all both discovered the greatest gift of all; the all-encompassing grace and comfort of God.
Several days later, following her knee and hip surgery, I was summoned to Anne’s room for a different purpose. She grasped my hand, looked at me with a smile and said: “I sensed the presence of God in the room that night during communion and for the first time in my life I felt truly loved. Thank you!”
I don’t know why God physically heals some and not others. Why some people receive more pain than any one person can possibly bear while others live virtually trouble-free. Maybe we’re asking the wrong question. The right question might be: Where is God in the midst of our troubles? Do we have a future to look forward too beyond the suffering we experience now?
On a dark night in the midst of a busy hospital Anne and I felt the healing presence and the awesome grace of almighty God. Our future felt secure even in the midst of struggle. Together we found hope.
“I have a surprise for you!” Anne, continued. She got out of the hospital bed and stood up triumphantly. Anne then asked me to escort her on the first real walk she had taken in over a year. Together we walked the length of the hospital corridor and back.
This time it was my turn to cry.
Monday, August 23, 2010
Healing Service - Part 2
I wrote about a healing service that left me with more questions than answers. Are special services necessary for God to heal? How did the preacher know so much about me? Was the woman at the service healed of a blood disorder simply because hands were placed on her? Did Jesus really heal the blind man? What about those who are not healed? Are there other, less dramatic ways we can be involved in a healing ministry?
So along with several leaders of our church, we began to look into the miracle of God’s healing. The first step was to study scripture. Here are a few clear examples:
After months of preparation and prayer our church and I reached a critical turning point.
For several weeks during Sunday worship, I shared what our leadership discovered and how we hoped to expand our healing ministry in several spiritual and practical directions from increasing our visitation ministry to providing training for one of our members to become a Parish Nurse.
At the end of the final service, after months of preparation, several leaders stood with me as I offered the opportunity for anyone who needed prayers for healing to come forward. In the background a musician began playing softly. For the longest moment, nothing happened --
Then the miracle of God’s healing began.
First one woman needed help in dealing with Osteoporosis. Right behind her was another person suffering from chronic back problems. One man confessed an addiction to prescription medication and asked for help.
The line grew as we gathered around each person, heard his/her request and took turns offering prayers to God. At one point the music stopped and for several minutes, all you could hear were the sounds of people sobbing while others prayed for them.
In over twenty years of ministry, I never before witnessed such a spiritual and emotional outpouring. Over the next few days, several who came forward told me of dramatic changes and yes -- even miracles!
Understanding and believing the miracle of God’s healing was a critical turning point in my life and the ministry of our church.
Have I successfully answered all the questions and concerns about healing? No and I likely never will, but like the healed blind man, I can now emphatically say to Jesus and to you:
“Yes Lord, I believe! I was blind and now I see!”
So along with several leaders of our church, we began to look into the miracle of God’s healing. The first step was to study scripture. Here are a few clear examples:
- God heals. “He forgives all my sins and heals all my diseases - ” (Psalm 103.3)
- Jesus heals. “- and he (Jesus) healed all the sick.” (Matthew 8:17)
- The disciples heal. “Then he (Jesus) sent them out to heal the sick.” (Luke 9:2)
- We can heal. “Are any among you sick? They should call for the elders of the church and have them pray and their prayer offered in faith will heal the sick.” (James 5:14-15)
After studying Scripture, we invited leaders from other churches to talk about their healing ministry. From them we learned that as Christians we are already involved in God’s miracle of healing. Every time we visit someone in need, send a card, deliver a basket of food, bake a cake, offer a prayer or simply share a conversation over a soothing cup of coffee we are offering God’s miracle of healing. We could stop feeling inadequate and start learning how to improve.
- Healing is a miracle and an example of God’s mercy, not a performance.
- Healing involves spiritual, emotional and physical wholeness as much as a physical deed.
- Healing occurs in God’s way and in God’s time, not simply because of what we say or do.
- Healing includes human responses such as nursing care, counseling and acts of friendship.
- Healing may mean courage to endure suffering and hardship rather than instant reprieve.
- Healing ultimately trumpets our earthly death as a victory ensuring eternal life in heaven.
“Jesus went to the blind man and asked, ‘Do you believe in the Son of Man?’ The man answered, ‘Who is he, sir, because I would like to.’ Jesus said, ‘You have seen him and he is speaking to you!’ The blind man responded, ‘Yes, Lord, I believe!’ And he worshiped Jesus.” (John 9:35-39)
Sunday, August 22, 2010
Healing Service - Part 1
“I’m taking you to a ‘real’ church! We’re going to a healing service!” The first words, after a short introduction, uttered by Dot, an energetic 75-year-young woman who felt led by God to provide a room for me during my studies at Duke Divinity School. Before I could set down my suitcase she steered me back outside to her car and forcefully exclaimed, “I’ll drive!”
“As Jesus was walking along, he saw a man who had been blind from birth.” (John 9:1)
As we entered the crowded church everyone was exuberantly singing and clapping. We were ushered to the only seats available, on the first row, directly in front of the speakers. Boy, was I feeling intimidated. It had only been a few short weeks since I left the business world to become a preacher and here I was on the front row of a crowded healing service having no idea what was going to happen next. I didn’t even know what a healing service was? I would soon find out.
“’Teacher,’ his disciples asked him, ‘why was this man born blind?’ Jesus answered. ‘He was born blind so the power of God could be seen in him.” (2-3)
Dot, gave me a knowing look that implied, “Trust me!” The music was catchy and easy to sing and I found myself beginning to relax and enjoy the service. The speaker stressed the importance of individual fasting and prayer. “We cannot be an example for others unless we are willing to practice what we believe!” he said. Nothing unusual so far, but then --
“Then he (Jesus) spit on the ground, made mud with the saliva and smoothed the mud over the blind man’s eyes. He told him, ‘Go and wash in the pool of Siloam” (Siloam means Sent). So the man went and washed and came back seeing!” (6-7)
The preacher pointed to a young woman and mentioned a recent divorce and how God would help her cope as a single mother. He spoke to a young man about struggles with alcoholism. Then, the minister looked directly at me and asked me to stand. He told everyone I was a new minister (that much he knew) but then he shared personal details about my life he could not have known. He asked everyone to pray for my ministry and let me sit down. Now I was uncomfortable and my head was spinning with questions. “What just happened? How did he know about me?”
“His neighbors and others who knew him as a blind beggar asked each other, ‘Is this the same man - that beggar? Some said he was and others said, ‘No, but he surely looks like him.’ And the beggar kept saying, ‘I am the same man!’” (8-9)
As if by unspoken command people began slowly moving to the front. The minister approached one woman, gazed into her eyes and mentioned a severe blood disorder. “In the name of Jesus, heal her!” he said. The woman spread her arms straight into the air, screamed and fell backwards -- right into my arms. So I caught her! Two women immediately and gently eased her to the floor. Then they discreetly covered her with a sheet.
“So for the second time they called in the man who had been blind and told him, ‘Give glory to God by telling the truth, because we know Jesus is a sinner.’ The man replied, ‘I don’t know whether he is a sinner but I know this: I was blind and now I can see!’” (24-25)
I left the service that night with more questions than answers. Are special healing services necessary for God to respond? Did Jesus really heal that blind man? How did the preacher know so much about me? Was the woman really healed of her blood disorder? What about people who are not healed? Are there other less dramatic ways we can be involved in a healing ministry?
Next: For years I have struggled with the questions presented by this story. I pray that my answers based on scripture and personal experience as a pastor will help you clearly understand and appreciate how we as the church can be actively involved in God’s miracle of healing?
“As Jesus was walking along, he saw a man who had been blind from birth.” (John 9:1)
As we entered the crowded church everyone was exuberantly singing and clapping. We were ushered to the only seats available, on the first row, directly in front of the speakers. Boy, was I feeling intimidated. It had only been a few short weeks since I left the business world to become a preacher and here I was on the front row of a crowded healing service having no idea what was going to happen next. I didn’t even know what a healing service was? I would soon find out.
“’Teacher,’ his disciples asked him, ‘why was this man born blind?’ Jesus answered. ‘He was born blind so the power of God could be seen in him.” (2-3)
Dot, gave me a knowing look that implied, “Trust me!” The music was catchy and easy to sing and I found myself beginning to relax and enjoy the service. The speaker stressed the importance of individual fasting and prayer. “We cannot be an example for others unless we are willing to practice what we believe!” he said. Nothing unusual so far, but then --
“Then he (Jesus) spit on the ground, made mud with the saliva and smoothed the mud over the blind man’s eyes. He told him, ‘Go and wash in the pool of Siloam” (Siloam means Sent). So the man went and washed and came back seeing!” (6-7)
The preacher pointed to a young woman and mentioned a recent divorce and how God would help her cope as a single mother. He spoke to a young man about struggles with alcoholism. Then, the minister looked directly at me and asked me to stand. He told everyone I was a new minister (that much he knew) but then he shared personal details about my life he could not have known. He asked everyone to pray for my ministry and let me sit down. Now I was uncomfortable and my head was spinning with questions. “What just happened? How did he know about me?”
“His neighbors and others who knew him as a blind beggar asked each other, ‘Is this the same man - that beggar? Some said he was and others said, ‘No, but he surely looks like him.’ And the beggar kept saying, ‘I am the same man!’” (8-9)
As if by unspoken command people began slowly moving to the front. The minister approached one woman, gazed into her eyes and mentioned a severe blood disorder. “In the name of Jesus, heal her!” he said. The woman spread her arms straight into the air, screamed and fell backwards -- right into my arms. So I caught her! Two women immediately and gently eased her to the floor. Then they discreetly covered her with a sheet.
“So for the second time they called in the man who had been blind and told him, ‘Give glory to God by telling the truth, because we know Jesus is a sinner.’ The man replied, ‘I don’t know whether he is a sinner but I know this: I was blind and now I can see!’” (24-25)
I left the service that night with more questions than answers. Are special healing services necessary for God to respond? Did Jesus really heal that blind man? How did the preacher know so much about me? Was the woman really healed of her blood disorder? What about people who are not healed? Are there other less dramatic ways we can be involved in a healing ministry?
Next: For years I have struggled with the questions presented by this story. I pray that my answers based on scripture and personal experience as a pastor will help you clearly understand and appreciate how we as the church can be actively involved in God’s miracle of healing?
Saturday, August 21, 2010
Surfing
During the 1960's there was nothing more exciting than surfing for a teenager: Beach Boys music, parties on the beach and fun, fun, fun. Surfers dared to be unique. They acted and dressed different. Surfers wore pants with holes in the knees and T-shirts with surfer logos. They drove converted vans with surfboards on top. Surfers were so cool that I wanted to be one. My quest to be a surfer was foolish and I made a few mistakes along the way. Looking back, I discovered life lessons all guided by Scripture: Philippians 4:6-9. So, let's go surfin'!
Lesson 1: Why Use A Battleship when A Surfboard will do? To surf, you need a board. Our beach had small waves so surfboards were short and light. I bought a board used in Hawaii that was nine feet long and weighed at least seven tons. We nicknamed it 'the battleship.' People on the beach laughed when they saw me coming. In the water, other surfers avoided me.
Good preparation beats frettin.' Nike says, "Just do it!" God says in Philippians "Don't worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done."
Lesson 2: Are you doing too much paddlin' and too little surfin'? Do you know how much energy it takes just to paddle out to the surfing area? (Especially with a battleship.) I huffed and puffed and thrashed my arms, only to have the next wave come too soon, pick up the surfboard and fling me back to shore. When I finally arrived to the surfing area, I was too pooped to surf.
Is your 'work at it' too large and your 'faith in it' too small? Frank Sinatra sings, "I did it my way." God says, "If you do this, you will experience God's peace, which is far more wonderful than the human mind can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds." (Verse 7)
Lesson 3: A sleeping surfer could get stung. After reaching the surfing area, I took a few minutes to rest. One time, I woke up, rubbed my eyes, looked around and saw the biggest jellyfish in the world. So much for teenage coolness as I screamed and fell off the board. I set a new speed record swimming to shore. The surfboard took care of itself.
Do you know when to relax and when to be alert? We should work at having a better relationship with God in order to set our priorities straight. Then we rest peacefully in order to be more alert. "And now, dear friends, let me say one more thing as I close this letter. Fix your thoughts on what is true and honorable and right. (Verse 8) Strengthening our relationship with God through prayer, Bible study and church involvement are key ingredients to an improved outlook in this world and the next.
Lesson 4: Waxing your board beats breaking your gourd. After finally getting into position, I was ready for my first ride. I could picture myself hangin' five, maybe ten. For non-surfers, I'm describing the ability to stand on the front of the board and curl either five or ten toes over the edge. (I may have achieved hanging - one.)
The 'Battleship' was in position and I paddled like mad to catch the next wave. I did it! "Man, this is easy," I thought. Then, I stood up. Did you know that a surfboard should be waxed? Have you ever tried standing on a 'slip n slide?' I slipped and then slid off the board. So much for hanging ten.
A willingness to prepare can save a lot of despair. God says, "Think about things that are pure and lovely and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise." (Philippians 4:8)
Lesson 5: How do you steer this thing? After applying at least three inches of wax, I went out again, caught a wave, stood up and stayed up. But now I faced a new problem: "How do you steer this thing?" My 'Battleship' was bearing down on some poor schmuck while I helplessly shouted: "Look out!" The poor fellow on the other board stepped back just as my board landed and I flipped him high enough in the air to qualify for a pole vault competition. They asked me to leave the beach that day.
A willingness to get up after failing is the crucial ingredient for success. Never, never, never give up! "Keep putting into practice all you learned from me and heard from me and saw me doing." (V9)
Lesson 6: Shootin' the tube makes a happy surfer dude! Finally, I was learning to actually surf. There are few thrills that compare with catching a wave and riding it all the way to the shore. Surfing is ultimately a combination of preparation, patience, a never-give up attitude combined with a deep love and respect for the power of the ocean wave.
Could this also be the secret of living a godly life? A combination of preparation, patience, a never-give up attitude and a deep love and respect for the power of God? Once you get the hang of it, there is no thrill that can compare with totally surrendering your life to God. Nothing! Not even surfing.
The right journey is always worth the sacrifice. God says, "And the God of peace will be with you." (V9) I am not encouraging you to take up surfing but I am encouraging you to work on deepening your relationship with God. Once you get the hang of it there is no thrill that can compare.
Here is my surfer dude prayer: "May the wind of the Holy Spirit be at your back and the waves of opportunity tall as you surf and serve for God!"
So, what are you waiting for? Surf's Up!
Lesson 1: Why Use A Battleship when A Surfboard will do? To surf, you need a board. Our beach had small waves so surfboards were short and light. I bought a board used in Hawaii that was nine feet long and weighed at least seven tons. We nicknamed it 'the battleship.' People on the beach laughed when they saw me coming. In the water, other surfers avoided me.
Good preparation beats frettin.' Nike says, "Just do it!" God says in Philippians "Don't worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done."
Lesson 2: Are you doing too much paddlin' and too little surfin'? Do you know how much energy it takes just to paddle out to the surfing area? (Especially with a battleship.) I huffed and puffed and thrashed my arms, only to have the next wave come too soon, pick up the surfboard and fling me back to shore. When I finally arrived to the surfing area, I was too pooped to surf.
Is your 'work at it' too large and your 'faith in it' too small? Frank Sinatra sings, "I did it my way." God says, "If you do this, you will experience God's peace, which is far more wonderful than the human mind can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds." (Verse 7)
Lesson 3: A sleeping surfer could get stung. After reaching the surfing area, I took a few minutes to rest. One time, I woke up, rubbed my eyes, looked around and saw the biggest jellyfish in the world. So much for teenage coolness as I screamed and fell off the board. I set a new speed record swimming to shore. The surfboard took care of itself.
Do you know when to relax and when to be alert? We should work at having a better relationship with God in order to set our priorities straight. Then we rest peacefully in order to be more alert. "And now, dear friends, let me say one more thing as I close this letter. Fix your thoughts on what is true and honorable and right. (Verse 8) Strengthening our relationship with God through prayer, Bible study and church involvement are key ingredients to an improved outlook in this world and the next.
Lesson 4: Waxing your board beats breaking your gourd. After finally getting into position, I was ready for my first ride. I could picture myself hangin' five, maybe ten. For non-surfers, I'm describing the ability to stand on the front of the board and curl either five or ten toes over the edge. (I may have achieved hanging - one.)
The 'Battleship' was in position and I paddled like mad to catch the next wave. I did it! "Man, this is easy," I thought. Then, I stood up. Did you know that a surfboard should be waxed? Have you ever tried standing on a 'slip n slide?' I slipped and then slid off the board. So much for hanging ten.
A willingness to prepare can save a lot of despair. God says, "Think about things that are pure and lovely and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise." (Philippians 4:8)
Lesson 5: How do you steer this thing? After applying at least three inches of wax, I went out again, caught a wave, stood up and stayed up. But now I faced a new problem: "How do you steer this thing?" My 'Battleship' was bearing down on some poor schmuck while I helplessly shouted: "Look out!" The poor fellow on the other board stepped back just as my board landed and I flipped him high enough in the air to qualify for a pole vault competition. They asked me to leave the beach that day.
A willingness to get up after failing is the crucial ingredient for success. Never, never, never give up! "Keep putting into practice all you learned from me and heard from me and saw me doing." (V9)
Lesson 6: Shootin' the tube makes a happy surfer dude! Finally, I was learning to actually surf. There are few thrills that compare with catching a wave and riding it all the way to the shore. Surfing is ultimately a combination of preparation, patience, a never-give up attitude combined with a deep love and respect for the power of the ocean wave.
Could this also be the secret of living a godly life? A combination of preparation, patience, a never-give up attitude and a deep love and respect for the power of God? Once you get the hang of it, there is no thrill that can compare with totally surrendering your life to God. Nothing! Not even surfing.
The right journey is always worth the sacrifice. God says, "And the God of peace will be with you." (V9) I am not encouraging you to take up surfing but I am encouraging you to work on deepening your relationship with God. Once you get the hang of it there is no thrill that can compare.
Here is my surfer dude prayer: "May the wind of the Holy Spirit be at your back and the waves of opportunity tall as you surf and serve for God!"
So, what are you waiting for? Surf's Up!
Thursday, August 19, 2010
Windshield or Bug?
It was Monday morning and I was feeling on top of the world: no calls of distress and the pile of paperwork was finally beginning to shrink. Then came the shrill ring of the phone.
“Mr. Davies, this is the high school. Your son is not in school today.”
“You must be mistaken,” I said, trying to sound calm. “He left the house on time. Are you sure, he’s not there?”
“Yes sir. We have a new policy of notifying parents when students are absent or tardy. Our records show your son as absent,” replied the calm professional voice.
As my heart pounded my voice remained surprisingly calm: “Thank you for letting me know.”
Like any reasonable parent with a sixteen-year-old son, I responded by panicking! My car nearly did a wheelie as I spun out of the driveway and flew down the highway toward the high school.
“Has he been in an accident on the way to school?” I thought. “Oh God, please protect my son.”
“Maybe he’s skipping school with friends.” I wondered. “I’m gonna kill him! I’ll take his car keys away and he’ll ride the bus! He’ll be grounded for a month! A year! For Life!”
While screeching into the parking lot, tire's a-smokin’, I noticed the familiar brown car that could only be my child’s. After running into the office and checking with the secretary, I was assured my son was safely inside the classroom.
“Whew! I can breathe again!”
Have you heard the country song: “Sometimes you’re the windshield. Sometimes you’re the bug?” I’m beginning to understand what that statement means. In the few short seconds of one phone call, the peace and tranquility of my “windshield” morning was shattered. Instead of being in control, I was a helpless “bug” hurtling down the highway with no way of knowing what tragedy would occur next.
This time, I was fortunate because nothing happened but what about next time? “What about you?” It’s true, you know. As much as you may try to remain a “windshield,” you will occasionally be the “bug.” You may even get squashed!
This is why you and I need God! Jesus told a story about two builders. The foolish one built a house on a foundation of sand. The winds and the storms came and the house collapsed. The wise builder used a foundation of rock. “The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against the house; yet it did not fall.” (Mat. 7:25)
Both builders faced the same storms, but only one house survived. God is our foundation. God never promised a storm-free, bug-free life. However, God does provide a solid survival plan.
Are you feeling like a “windshield” or a “bug?” Your continued struggle to follow God in the midst of either experience will become your solid foundation of rock against inevitable storms.
“Mr. Davies, this is the high school. Your son is not in school today.”
“You must be mistaken,” I said, trying to sound calm. “He left the house on time. Are you sure, he’s not there?”
“Yes sir. We have a new policy of notifying parents when students are absent or tardy. Our records show your son as absent,” replied the calm professional voice.
As my heart pounded my voice remained surprisingly calm: “Thank you for letting me know.”
Like any reasonable parent with a sixteen-year-old son, I responded by panicking! My car nearly did a wheelie as I spun out of the driveway and flew down the highway toward the high school.
“Has he been in an accident on the way to school?” I thought. “Oh God, please protect my son.”
“Maybe he’s skipping school with friends.” I wondered. “I’m gonna kill him! I’ll take his car keys away and he’ll ride the bus! He’ll be grounded for a month! A year! For Life!”
While screeching into the parking lot, tire's a-smokin’, I noticed the familiar brown car that could only be my child’s. After running into the office and checking with the secretary, I was assured my son was safely inside the classroom.
“Whew! I can breathe again!”
Have you heard the country song: “Sometimes you’re the windshield. Sometimes you’re the bug?” I’m beginning to understand what that statement means. In the few short seconds of one phone call, the peace and tranquility of my “windshield” morning was shattered. Instead of being in control, I was a helpless “bug” hurtling down the highway with no way of knowing what tragedy would occur next.
This time, I was fortunate because nothing happened but what about next time? “What about you?” It’s true, you know. As much as you may try to remain a “windshield,” you will occasionally be the “bug.” You may even get squashed!
This is why you and I need God! Jesus told a story about two builders. The foolish one built a house on a foundation of sand. The winds and the storms came and the house collapsed. The wise builder used a foundation of rock. “The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against the house; yet it did not fall.” (Mat. 7:25)
Both builders faced the same storms, but only one house survived. God is our foundation. God never promised a storm-free, bug-free life. However, God does provide a solid survival plan.
Are you feeling like a “windshield” or a “bug?” Your continued struggle to follow God in the midst of either experience will become your solid foundation of rock against inevitable storms.
Wednesday, August 18, 2010
Muslim Mosque, Slain Missionaries, David = Revenge?
Tolstoy wrote about an honest and hardworking Russian peasant who spent the night in a local inn. A man was killed and the murderer placed the weapon in the bag of the sleeping peasant. The police discovered it and put the hapless peasant in jail. For twenty-six years the peasant survived the harsh conditions of prison on the bitter hope that someday he would obtain revenge.
After twenty-six years the real murderer was placed in prison and then caught attempting to escape. One prisoner saw everything: the peasant. At long last the opportunity dreamed about since that villainous night twenty-six years ago presented itself, for on the peasant’s word the murderer would be put to death. Here was his big chance. If it were you, what would you do?
This question seems especially appropriate in todays charged political and religious climate.
Ten Medical Missionaries were brutally slain in Afghanistan. Why? For providing eye care? The Taliban claimed responsibility because they were “teaching Christianity to Afghans.” When did teaching religion become an excuse for murder? Wouldn’t it be understandable to seek revenge?
Everyone seems to be either protesting or defending the building of a Muslim Community Center or Mosque in New York city within several blocks of ground zero, site of the 9/11 attacks. On one side is the cherished American ideal expressed by our US Constitution of freedom of religion. On the other side is our concern to preserve and honor those slain by Muslim extremists. Wouldn’t it be understandable to defend our sacred soil and make an exception to religious freedom?
Revenge can also be personal – very personal.
“Don’t get mad, get even!” is our chanted mantra. Maybe an employer treated you unfairly or a coworker climbed to the top over your back. A spouse abandoned you. Your parents failed you. You were “done wrong” as they say and now you are waiting for a chance to retaliate. “Don’t get mad, get even” is a reasonable response in the face of gross unfairness, isn’t it?
God calls it vengeance and has a lot to say about it. “Dear friends, never avenge yourselves. Leave that to God. For it is written, “I will take vengeance;” (Romans 12:19)
Personally, I don’t like God’s emphasis on “never avenge.” I would want to alter the language and say -- occasionally. I would ask for exceptions for extreme examples like our Russian peasant. I would want permission to seek revenge for our missionaries. I would want Islam to know we are serious about protecting the sacred ground around the former Word Trade Center. I would make an exception and say “avenge occasionally.” I would say that but I would be wrong.
God says, “never avenge.” A good Biblical example would be David.
King Saul was insanely jealous of David’s increasing popularity and eventually stripped him of his job, his wife, his best friend and his self-respect, finally forcing him to flee for safety. For years not days, Saul pursued David looking to exterminate him.
One day while pursuing David, ”Saul went into a cave to relieve himself. But as it happened, David and his men were hiding in that very cave!” (1 Samuel 24:3)
What would you do? “’Now’s your opportunity!’ David’s men whispered to him. David crept forward and cut off a piece of Saul’s robe.” (4-5)
What? Why did David do that? Saul was trying to kill him. Why not get even? Instead, he crept close to Saul and performed the equivalent of a teenage prank or practical joke.
Even that small act of defiance made David feel guilty. “The LORD knows I shouldn’t have done it,” he said.” (6)
In the military, it is drilled into you: ‘salute the rank, not the person.’ Saul was anointed by God to be King. David was duty bound to treat the King with respect and honor. David wisely chose mercy and to confront Saul with truth.
As he left the cave, David appeared and held up a piece of his robe. “This proves that I am not trying to harm you and that I have not sinned against you, even though you have been hunting for me to kill me. The LORD will decide between us. Perhaps the LORD will punish you for what you are trying to do to me, but I will never harm you.” (11-12)
David’s refusal to succumb to the temptation of “getting even” was a turning point because he chose to do what was right by repaying evil with good.
“If your enemies are hungry, feed them. If they are thirsty, give them something to drink. Don’t let evil get the best of you, but conquer evil by doing good.” (Romans 12:20-21) David ultimately chose to place his faith in God not revenge.
That night the murderer approached the peasant and on his knees begged for forgiveness. Again, the light of Christ flooded the peasant’s heart: “God will forgive you. Maybe I am a hundred times worse.” And at those words the peasant’s heavy heart grew light as he received God’s comfort.
I don’t know of any better witness to your faith in God than a willingness to forgive someone who has grievously harmed you whether it is a terrorist group, or an individual. Is it easy? Never! Is it necessary and worthwhile? Absolutely! Your willingness to forgive could be the principal turning point in your life, your health, your faith and ultimately could be the best witness of our religion and our American values.
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Dear Larry, I just wanted to say a big thank you to you and your prayer partners around the world for their prayers and kind words of encouragement. According to Romans 8:28 All things are working for our good and HIS Glory and that is what is happening in our lives. It is not easy to understand this initially when everything seems to be working against us and Satan seems to be winning - but PRAISE AND THANK GOD for turning things around for our good and favor and building us up through tough and hard times and giving us His victory according to His promise in His word. He is helping us to be more than conquerors through CHRIST who strengthens us and takes care of all our needs. I feel more close to GOD than ever before and it is so peaceful and wonderful. Thank you and GOD bless you always. -- Murali
After twenty-six years the real murderer was placed in prison and then caught attempting to escape. One prisoner saw everything: the peasant. At long last the opportunity dreamed about since that villainous night twenty-six years ago presented itself, for on the peasant’s word the murderer would be put to death. Here was his big chance. If it were you, what would you do?
This question seems especially appropriate in todays charged political and religious climate.
Ten Medical Missionaries were brutally slain in Afghanistan. Why? For providing eye care? The Taliban claimed responsibility because they were “teaching Christianity to Afghans.” When did teaching religion become an excuse for murder? Wouldn’t it be understandable to seek revenge?
Everyone seems to be either protesting or defending the building of a Muslim Community Center or Mosque in New York city within several blocks of ground zero, site of the 9/11 attacks. On one side is the cherished American ideal expressed by our US Constitution of freedom of religion. On the other side is our concern to preserve and honor those slain by Muslim extremists. Wouldn’t it be understandable to defend our sacred soil and make an exception to religious freedom?
Revenge can also be personal – very personal.
“Don’t get mad, get even!” is our chanted mantra. Maybe an employer treated you unfairly or a coworker climbed to the top over your back. A spouse abandoned you. Your parents failed you. You were “done wrong” as they say and now you are waiting for a chance to retaliate. “Don’t get mad, get even” is a reasonable response in the face of gross unfairness, isn’t it?
God calls it vengeance and has a lot to say about it. “Dear friends, never avenge yourselves. Leave that to God. For it is written, “I will take vengeance;” (Romans 12:19)
Personally, I don’t like God’s emphasis on “never avenge.” I would want to alter the language and say -- occasionally. I would ask for exceptions for extreme examples like our Russian peasant. I would want permission to seek revenge for our missionaries. I would want Islam to know we are serious about protecting the sacred ground around the former Word Trade Center. I would make an exception and say “avenge occasionally.” I would say that but I would be wrong.
God says, “never avenge.” A good Biblical example would be David.
King Saul was insanely jealous of David’s increasing popularity and eventually stripped him of his job, his wife, his best friend and his self-respect, finally forcing him to flee for safety. For years not days, Saul pursued David looking to exterminate him.
One day while pursuing David, ”Saul went into a cave to relieve himself. But as it happened, David and his men were hiding in that very cave!” (1 Samuel 24:3)
What would you do? “’Now’s your opportunity!’ David’s men whispered to him. David crept forward and cut off a piece of Saul’s robe.” (4-5)
What? Why did David do that? Saul was trying to kill him. Why not get even? Instead, he crept close to Saul and performed the equivalent of a teenage prank or practical joke.
Even that small act of defiance made David feel guilty. “The LORD knows I shouldn’t have done it,” he said.” (6)
In the military, it is drilled into you: ‘salute the rank, not the person.’ Saul was anointed by God to be King. David was duty bound to treat the King with respect and honor. David wisely chose mercy and to confront Saul with truth.
As he left the cave, David appeared and held up a piece of his robe. “This proves that I am not trying to harm you and that I have not sinned against you, even though you have been hunting for me to kill me. The LORD will decide between us. Perhaps the LORD will punish you for what you are trying to do to me, but I will never harm you.” (11-12)
David’s refusal to succumb to the temptation of “getting even” was a turning point because he chose to do what was right by repaying evil with good.
“If your enemies are hungry, feed them. If they are thirsty, give them something to drink. Don’t let evil get the best of you, but conquer evil by doing good.” (Romans 12:20-21) David ultimately chose to place his faith in God not revenge.
- We seek justice for those responsible for murdering the ten medical missionaries in Afghanistan but we honor their memory by continuing to help those in need.
- We continue to fight terrorism and Muslim extremism but we also witness our American and religious heritage by a willingness to respect the rights of all religions including Islam.
- When we are treated unfairly a loving and forgiving response toward the one who hurt us can be the best possible witness of our integrity and our faith.
Remember the Russian peasant in the story I mentioned earlier? He had his own opportunity to “get even” with the man who ruined his life. But instead of jumping at the chance, the story describes the peasant as experiencing the overpowering grace and love of God. The darkness that was within him was suddenly filled with light and the peasant found himself saying to the officers: “I saw nothing.”
Tuesday, August 17, 2010
Blindness and Psalm One
As we gathered, the teacher instructed each of us to choose a partner. "One of you will be blindfolded and the other will be a guide," he added. Everything went black as I slipped on the blindfold and allowed my partner to nudge me forward and lead me by the hand. A once-familiar classroom was suddenly a maze of desks and chairs to bump into or trip over. No longer self-reliant, I was utterly dependent on my guide for directions and safety. But the worst was yet to come.
Leaving the classroom, we staggered down the hall. My other senses, once ignored, began to provide clues as to where we were. Laughter and talking meant other students were nearby. We must be in the hall. Ouch! That must be a door. The hard surface under my feet indicated a sidewalk. Automobile sounds fading in and out, suggested we were near a road.
A road? Wait a minute! We're on a road -- with cars? Isn't that -- dangerous?!
"You are now stepping off the curb and onto the highway," said the teacher. Suddenly, my body lurched out of balance as the ground under my feet dropped eight inches. Imagine eight tiny inches with the power to disrupt everything that was secure in my life. Knowing exactly where I was never seemed to matter before but now details were crucial. How could I take the next step if I didn't know where that step would lead?
"Stop and listen," commanded the teacher. I heard the familiar sound of an automobile engine only this time it was getting louder. Alarms in my brain screamed, "You idiot, run. A car is heading straight toward you!" But the sound went safely by, only to be quickly followed by a similar sound from the opposite direction. Again, the voice inside me screamed, "Run!" But again, nothing happened. We removed the blindfolds, rubbed our eyes and found ourselves standing in the middle of a busy hightway with cars whizzing by.
I never before grasped the fear and helplessness that accompanies blindness. This was a terrifying lesson for me.
Is this what God means by spiritual blindness? At first, you think you can manage okay as other senses provide clues; but suddenly something shifts and you are thrown off balance. Alarms in your brain scream out as you sense approaching danger. Your spiritual eyesight now becomes crucial but you seem to be blindfolded. How can you take the next step in life if you cannot see where to place your feet?
Spiritual blindness produce feelings of helplessness and fear. But Psalm One offers hope for the blind.
“Oh, the joys of those who do not follow the advice of the wicked -- But they delight in doing everything the Lord wants. (Psalm 1:1) This is not a lighthearted promise of joy as in eating ice cream. This indescribable joy can only come from God. How do we obtain it? We begin to open our spiritual eyes and carefully watch where we place our feet. Don’t search for shortcuts. Rather, begin to look seriously at the reality of our spiritual blindness and the benefits of relying on God’s light.
There are two opposing principles within Psalm One. First is the promise: “They are like trees planted along the riverbank, bearing fruit each season without fail. Their leaves never wither, and in all they do, they prosper.” (1:3) In other words, the storms still exist but God gives strength to withstand and continue bearing fruit?
Second is the warning: “But this is not true of the wicked. They are like worthless chaff, scattered by the wind. They will be condemned at the time of judgment.” (1:4) Most of us would not quickly claim to be spiritual trees but none of us wants to be chaff either. So, what do we do? How can we improve our spiritual eyesight?
The experience of being blindfolded and a careful reading of Psalm one yield four valuable lessons:
It sure beats an oncoming car.
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“I walked into a church to see a play my son was in. I had not (been) for years. I had given up on Christianity. Something melted inside my heart. I felt an aching sense that I was missing something which could fill the spiritual hole inside me. The pull of that service kept tugging on me and I kept going back. The church has been responsible for nurturing my spiritual growth through worship, Bible studies, workshops, prayer and the list goes on. Why is the church important to me? Without it, I would still be lost.” –Eveline
Leaving the classroom, we staggered down the hall. My other senses, once ignored, began to provide clues as to where we were. Laughter and talking meant other students were nearby. We must be in the hall. Ouch! That must be a door. The hard surface under my feet indicated a sidewalk. Automobile sounds fading in and out, suggested we were near a road.
A road? Wait a minute! We're on a road -- with cars? Isn't that -- dangerous?!
"You are now stepping off the curb and onto the highway," said the teacher. Suddenly, my body lurched out of balance as the ground under my feet dropped eight inches. Imagine eight tiny inches with the power to disrupt everything that was secure in my life. Knowing exactly where I was never seemed to matter before but now details were crucial. How could I take the next step if I didn't know where that step would lead?
"Stop and listen," commanded the teacher. I heard the familiar sound of an automobile engine only this time it was getting louder. Alarms in my brain screamed, "You idiot, run. A car is heading straight toward you!" But the sound went safely by, only to be quickly followed by a similar sound from the opposite direction. Again, the voice inside me screamed, "Run!" But again, nothing happened. We removed the blindfolds, rubbed our eyes and found ourselves standing in the middle of a busy hightway with cars whizzing by.
I never before grasped the fear and helplessness that accompanies blindness. This was a terrifying lesson for me.
Is this what God means by spiritual blindness? At first, you think you can manage okay as other senses provide clues; but suddenly something shifts and you are thrown off balance. Alarms in your brain scream out as you sense approaching danger. Your spiritual eyesight now becomes crucial but you seem to be blindfolded. How can you take the next step in life if you cannot see where to place your feet?
Spiritual blindness produce feelings of helplessness and fear. But Psalm One offers hope for the blind.
“Oh, the joys of those who do not follow the advice of the wicked -- But they delight in doing everything the Lord wants. (Psalm 1:1) This is not a lighthearted promise of joy as in eating ice cream. This indescribable joy can only come from God. How do we obtain it? We begin to open our spiritual eyes and carefully watch where we place our feet. Don’t search for shortcuts. Rather, begin to look seriously at the reality of our spiritual blindness and the benefits of relying on God’s light.
There are two opposing principles within Psalm One. First is the promise: “They are like trees planted along the riverbank, bearing fruit each season without fail. Their leaves never wither, and in all they do, they prosper.” (1:3) In other words, the storms still exist but God gives strength to withstand and continue bearing fruit?
Second is the warning: “But this is not true of the wicked. They are like worthless chaff, scattered by the wind. They will be condemned at the time of judgment.” (1:4) Most of us would not quickly claim to be spiritual trees but none of us wants to be chaff either. So, what do we do? How can we improve our spiritual eyesight?
The experience of being blindfolded and a careful reading of Psalm one yield four valuable lessons:
- Appreciate what you already possess – the abilities God has given you. “Oh the joys of those –“
- Learn to develop other senses. Strengthen Godly relationships. “They are like trees -- bearing fruit.”
- Avoid crowded highways. Let go of damaging relationships. ”Do not follow the advice of the wicked –“
- Know and trust your guide. Learn Who is your real Guide. “The Lord watches over your path --”
Psalm One ends with a promise and a warning: “For the Lord watches over the path of the godly, but the path of the wicked leads to destruction.” (1:6)
Are you struggling with spiritual blindness? Has your equilibrium been knocked around? Are you sensing approaching danger?
Maybe it's time for a new Light: Who knows exactly where you need to go and can be depended upon to light your way to safety. What are you waiting for? Open your eyes and pray for God’s light to guide your journey.
Monday, August 16, 2010
Church: A One Million Dollar Investment?
An investor once asked the following question: "If I wanted to invest one million dollars in a church, which one would you say is the right choice for me?"
For the first time in a long time, I was caught speechless. I finally had to admit that I had no answer. But I did have a question: "Why are you asking?"
He said, "Larry, I want to invest in a church that has a future. When you can convince me that you have one or more churches who claim a clear vision of reaching others for Jesus Christ and are undertaking bold initiatives toward fulfilling that vision I will be proud to invest in that church."
"So, what you are saying is you want to invest in a large membership church." I answered.
"Not necessarily," he quickly answered. "There are many small churches with a wonderful future." Then he paused. "However, a small church with a big vision won't stay small very long."
"Are you looking for a young church?"
"No," he answered. "We old folks can make things happen but an old church with a bold vision for the future won't stay old. Young people will flock to a church like that."
"Ok, so maybe you want a church with stirring music and passionate preaching?"
He smiled and said, "Debates over worship styles and preaching usually start arguments and divide churches. Churches with a future find many creative ways to express their passionate love for God."
Frustrated, I finally asked the right question: "So what is your definition of a church with a future?"
"I thought you would never ask," he said. A church with a future that will earn my investment of one million dollars would meet four basic criteria:"
"Wow! You're asking for a lot." I said.
He thought a moment and answered. "I have a right to ask for a lot. One million dollars is a lot of money but this is about more than money. A church with a future won't really need my money."
"They won't?" I asked. Now I was really confused.
He laughed and then added. "Of course, they would love receiving the one million but a church which meets the four criteria I outlined will have money, leadership, volunteers and most important of all -"
He paused for a moment and smiled. "Most important of all, they will have God and God will provide the resources they need. Not only would I be thrilled to invest my million dollars. I would join that church and give them my time, my resources, my future and most of all - my life."
Jesus said: "You are the salt of the earth. But if the salt loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? It is no longer good for anything, except to be thrown out and trampled underfoot. You are the light of the world. A city on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand and it gives light to everyone in the house." (Mat. 5:13-15)
Here is a challenge: Write a comment and tell me why your church might be worth a million dollar investment. How well do you meet the four criteria?
For the first time in a long time, I was caught speechless. I finally had to admit that I had no answer. But I did have a question: "Why are you asking?"
He said, "Larry, I want to invest in a church that has a future. When you can convince me that you have one or more churches who claim a clear vision of reaching others for Jesus Christ and are undertaking bold initiatives toward fulfilling that vision I will be proud to invest in that church."
"So, what you are saying is you want to invest in a large membership church." I answered.
"Not necessarily," he quickly answered. "There are many small churches with a wonderful future." Then he paused. "However, a small church with a big vision won't stay small very long."
"Are you looking for a young church?"
"No," he answered. "We old folks can make things happen but an old church with a bold vision for the future won't stay old. Young people will flock to a church like that."
"Ok, so maybe you want a church with stirring music and passionate preaching?"
He smiled and said, "Debates over worship styles and preaching usually start arguments and divide churches. Churches with a future find many creative ways to express their passionate love for God."
Frustrated, I finally asked the right question: "So what is your definition of a church with a future?"
"I thought you would never ask," he said. A church with a future that will earn my investment of one million dollars would meet four basic criteria:"
- Vision: They have a God inspired vision.
- Plan: They have a plan outlining clear steps for the church and each member.
- Passion: They are passionate and willing to do whatever it takes.
- Fruit: A fruit tree with no fruit is useless. Show me results.
"Wow! You're asking for a lot." I said.
He thought a moment and answered. "I have a right to ask for a lot. One million dollars is a lot of money but this is about more than money. A church with a future won't really need my money."
"They won't?" I asked. Now I was really confused.
He laughed and then added. "Of course, they would love receiving the one million but a church which meets the four criteria I outlined will have money, leadership, volunteers and most important of all -"
He paused for a moment and smiled. "Most important of all, they will have God and God will provide the resources they need. Not only would I be thrilled to invest my million dollars. I would join that church and give them my time, my resources, my future and most of all - my life."
Jesus said: "You are the salt of the earth. But if the salt loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? It is no longer good for anything, except to be thrown out and trampled underfoot. You are the light of the world. A city on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand and it gives light to everyone in the house." (Mat. 5:13-15)
Here is a challenge: Write a comment and tell me why your church might be worth a million dollar investment. How well do you meet the four criteria?
Sunday, August 15, 2010
Prayer: Asking for Help - Part 2
In Part one, overwhelmed by email requests for prayer, I desperately prayed for God’s help and sought scriptural guidance. That’s when I discovered the story of a Roman officer who taught us all a lesson in faith, “Just say the word from where you are, Jesus, and my servant will be healed.” (Luke 7:6-10) His trust in Jesus helped me learn that it’s never too late to ask for help.
Faith is my willingness to trust God’s answer. Meanwhile, email prayer needs continued to arrive.
First: I needed to kick myself, hard. These prayer requests weren’t burdens; far from it. God was giving me a breathtaking opportunity to provide ministry for the needs of others around the world.
People seek guidance from God, not me. I am simply asked to pray. Once again, God provided a “turning point” in my life. The question is: “What would I do with it?”
With renewed enthusiasm, I began to pray, really pray. When each request flashed across the computer screen, I bowed my head and said a prayer for their situation now not later. Then I began to forward the email prayer requests to others.
Today we have, over five thousand volunteers around the world who have signed on to join our ministry in prayer. In addition, Brian Masinick who lives in another part of the country signed on to by my prayer site manager. Three times each week he sends out a list of prayer needs along with email addresses so along with prayer you can also send an encouraging email.
At Sowing Seeds Ministry, we regularly witness miracles, all due to our willingness to simply send out lists of prayer requests and trust in God and our prayer team for the rest.
“Thank you Larry - because of you and your cause, you have saved my life of pain and torment. I have received so many messages from folks in your prayer team and I am totally overwhelmed!! Thank you, thank you, thank you! I now feel foolish for the stupid thoughts of suicide and know there are many who love and care for me! God bless you for your kindness and love!” -- Flo
Another idea kept nagging me. “But, what about the church I serve? Shouldn’t they be involved?”
Occasionally on Sunday, during worship, copies of email requests from around the world are distributed to every member of our congregation. During the following week we agree to pray for those on the list. Soon everyone in the congregation is agreeing to pray for someone else. No longer are we simply asking God to be active in national and world events. We are praying for real people around the world and their specific needs.
One worship service ended with Communion. As people moved to the altar to receive the bread and cup symbolizing the body and blood of Jesus Christ they brought their email prayer request to the altar as they received communion.
What started as a problem became an opportunity for ministry. Those who asked for prayer are discovering answers. Prayer partners from all over the world are being used by God for ministry. Our churches have become excited partners in a new prayer ministry.
And me? I’ve changed too. When prayer needs flash across the computer, I no longer feel burdened. I know there is help waiting to be asked. Isn’t this what being the church is all about?
“I wish I had the words to express what was in my heart as I read the prayer requests this morning. What an eye-opener being part of Sowing Seeds prayer ministry has been and how heavy and anguished I feel after reading so many of them. What a call to prayer!” –Karen
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Go to our website and check out our prayer ministry and sign up to be one of our prayer partners. You can find out more information by clicking here: http://www.sowingseedsoffaith.com/sign-up.htm. Maybe you are the one who needs prayer you can click here: http://www.sowingseedsoffaith.com/feedback.htm.
Faith is my willingness to trust God’s answer. Meanwhile, email prayer needs continued to arrive.
- Marsha (Minnesota) My 20-year-old twin daughters are leaving home. They both suffer with learning disabilities. I pray their co-workers will be patient and help them succeed.
- Holly (Kentucky) My boyfriend has decided to go into the ministry. We are both seeking God’s will for our lives and hope to stay close together.
- Sharon (Canada) My son and his wife and five children. Their house caught fire and they still have no home, as they are low income. Nearly everything was lost.
- Alex (Scotland) Granddaughter has Hodgkin’s disease. She has a growth in her chest, near her heart and has spots and holes in her kidneys.
First: I needed to kick myself, hard. These prayer requests weren’t burdens; far from it. God was giving me a breathtaking opportunity to provide ministry for the needs of others around the world.
I clearly must learn how to replace worry over what “I” will do with faith in what “God” can do.
Friday, August 13, 2010
Prayer: Asking for Help - Part 1
Problems have the potential to become opportunities for growth. Well, I had a problem --
I encouraged visitors to our Sowing Seeds of Faith Website to share their concerns through an interactive web page, entitled “Prayer Needs.” Over the next few weeks, I received nearly one hundred requests for prayer from around the world. Here are a few examples (Names changed and requests edited):
I personally answered each request with encouragement and prayer but every day three to four more emails would arrive. Soon the requests for prayer were overwhelming. I was unable to meet the needs.
I wanted desperately to suggest words of hope that would movingly articulate God’s love and grace to everyone who wrote but at this point the person needing help and solid scriptural guidance was me.
Several respected leaders asked Jesus to come and heal the slave of a Roman officer who was near death. Before they arrived, however, the officer sent friends to meet Jesus who said, “Lord, don’t trouble yourself by coming to my home, for I am not worthy. Just say the word from where you are, and my servant will be healed. I know because I am under the authority of my superior officers, and I have authority over my soldiers. I only need to say, ‘Go,’ and they go.” When Jesus heard this, he was amazed. Turning to the crowd, he said, “I tell you, I haven’t seen faith like this in all the land of Israel!” And when they returned the slave was healed. (Parts of Luke 7:6-10)
On the surface, Jesus using a Roman officer as the main character in a lesson about faith makes no sense.
Unless that is the lesson –
For you see, it was the Roman Officer, not the religious leaders who grasped exactly Who Jesus was. “Just say the word from where you are and my servant will be healed.” While the religious insiders were holding debates, an outsider; a Roman officer went from debates to faith to action.
At that point, I realized a critical teaching: I am the religious insider who neglected to trust in God’s authority and help that was readily available to me.
But -- It’s never too late to ask for help. I had reached a crucial turning point in my life and in my ministry.
Next Friday: Find out how Larry made critical changes in his life and in his ministry. Meanwhile, go to our website and check out our prayer ministry and sign up to be one of our prayer partners. You can find out more information by clicking here: http://www.sowingseedsoffaith.com/sign-up.htm. Maybe you are the one who needs prayer you can click here: http://www.sowingseedsoffaith.com/feedback.htm. Our prayer ministry is called PraywithYou.org.
I encouraged visitors to our Sowing Seeds of Faith Website to share their concerns through an interactive web page, entitled “Prayer Needs.” Over the next few weeks, I received nearly one hundred requests for prayer from around the world. Here are a few examples (Names changed and requests edited):
- Alice (Alabama) -- We are the custodial parents of a seven-year-old granddaughter. Now her unfit biological mother is going to file to regain custody and we are devastated.
- Stephanie (California) -- I am a single mother raising a teenage daughter who just turned thirteen. My church is not offering much support. It’s scary and very lonely sometimes.
- Larry (Canada) -- I would like to change but I have a hard time obeying God’s Word. I would like to serve him and find happiness. I don’t want to fall back to the world.
- Allison (Maryland) -- We have been trying to have a child for almost five years. We have been through many doctors and procedures. We conceived once and lost the baby ten weeks later. We were both devastated.
I personally answered each request with encouragement and prayer but every day three to four more emails would arrive. Soon the requests for prayer were overwhelming. I was unable to meet the needs.
- Nicole (California) -- I lost my Mom and have a broken heart. She is with Jesus and I should be rejoicing but some days I hurt so much inside. I want to feel joy again.
- Michelle (South Africa) -- I am 33 and mother of a 12-year-old son. My husband was unfaithful and I must file for a divorce. He has no desire to continue being married to me. I am really struggling with why this happened to me. I don’t run around. I’ve been a good wife.
- Patricia (South Carolina) -- My son is serving a fifteen-year sentence for something he is innocent. Please ask God to turn his heart. Pray God’s blessings upon him.
- Colleen (Colorado) -- My friend was badly injured in a terrible car accident. He looks well on the outside now but he’s having memory loss, fatigue, mood swings, etc. He desperately needs help.
I wanted desperately to suggest words of hope that would movingly articulate God’s love and grace to everyone who wrote but at this point the person needing help and solid scriptural guidance was me.
Several respected leaders asked Jesus to come and heal the slave of a Roman officer who was near death. Before they arrived, however, the officer sent friends to meet Jesus who said, “Lord, don’t trouble yourself by coming to my home, for I am not worthy. Just say the word from where you are, and my servant will be healed. I know because I am under the authority of my superior officers, and I have authority over my soldiers. I only need to say, ‘Go,’ and they go.” When Jesus heard this, he was amazed. Turning to the crowd, he said, “I tell you, I haven’t seen faith like this in all the land of Israel!” And when they returned the slave was healed. (Parts of Luke 7:6-10)
On the surface, Jesus using a Roman officer as the main character in a lesson about faith makes no sense.
Unless that is the lesson –
For you see, it was the Roman Officer, not the religious leaders who grasped exactly Who Jesus was. “Just say the word from where you are and my servant will be healed.” While the religious insiders were holding debates, an outsider; a Roman officer went from debates to faith to action.
At that point, I realized a critical teaching: I am the religious insider who neglected to trust in God’s authority and help that was readily available to me.
But -- It’s never too late to ask for help. I had reached a crucial turning point in my life and in my ministry.
Thursday, August 12, 2010
Sometimes, You Just Have to Laugh
Sometimes, You Just Have to Laugh
“Are there any prayer needs today?” I asked during a worship service. One person mentioned a neighbor who was sick. Another spoke of a couple with financial problems. A young man asked us to pray his grandmother. I said, “If there are no other concerns let us bow our heads and pray.”
Then I felt something tugging on my pants leg and at the same time heard a loud whisper: “Preacher, Preacher: “I ‘needs’ something too!”
I slightly opened one eye and saw a little boy was on his hands and knees below me, tugging on my pants leg and earnestly whispering: “Preacher, I ‘needs’ something too!”
The choir members behind were beginning to lose their composure and I could hear giggling in the background as the boy continued tugging on my pants and was by now speaking loudly: “Preacher, I ‘needs’ something!”
“Oh no!” I thought. “Had I ignored the prayer need of a small child? Maybe he knew of someone who was ill?” Feeling guilty and ashamed, I stopped the prayer and gently asked the young boy: “Yes son, what do you need?”
He paused, looked at everyone: “Preacher, preacher -- I ‘needs’ to go to the bathroom!”
Sometimes, you just have to laugh!
I know what you’re thinking, “Being a minister is serious business!” Yes it is. I’m often exposed to the most sensitive and tragic moments in a person’s life. Often, when there is an illness, death or marital dispute, I receive the call to listen and offer the wisdom and comfort of God’s presence.
But over the years, I have discovered something profound. God has a wonderful sense of humor and God’s creatures were created to laugh as well as cry. Jesus said in Luke 6:21. “God blesses you who weep now, for the time will come when you will laugh with joy.” What a great promise!
This is what I’ve learned about laughter:
• Laughter can calm your fears.
• Laughter can restore your hope.
• Laughter can ease your pain.
• Laughter can strengthen your resolve.
• Laughter can turn arrogance into humility.
Many years ago, I returned to my home church for the first time since becoming a minister. I was nervous about how friends and family would respond. After all, these people only knew me as a wise-cracking teenager and salesman. Now, I was coming back to their congregation as a pastor. What a change! How would they react to the new me?
There was no need to worry. After the worship service, everyone gathered to offer congratulations and praise. Well, except for one older gentleman. For a moment he stayed in the background and quietly watched. Then, he slowly walked forward, planted himself directly in front of me and stared deeply into my eyes for several seconds. (It seemed like hours!) With just a trace of a smile beginning to crack his stony face, he uttered the words that would shatter any sense of false pride, I might consider claiming.
“Larry, if God can turn you into a preacher, He can save just about anyone!”
What could I say? Sometimes, you just have to laugh!
“Are there any prayer needs today?” I asked during a worship service. One person mentioned a neighbor who was sick. Another spoke of a couple with financial problems. A young man asked us to pray his grandmother. I said, “If there are no other concerns let us bow our heads and pray.”
Then I felt something tugging on my pants leg and at the same time heard a loud whisper: “Preacher, Preacher: “I ‘needs’ something too!”
I slightly opened one eye and saw a little boy was on his hands and knees below me, tugging on my pants leg and earnestly whispering: “Preacher, I ‘needs’ something too!”
The choir members behind were beginning to lose their composure and I could hear giggling in the background as the boy continued tugging on my pants and was by now speaking loudly: “Preacher, I ‘needs’ something!”
“Oh no!” I thought. “Had I ignored the prayer need of a small child? Maybe he knew of someone who was ill?” Feeling guilty and ashamed, I stopped the prayer and gently asked the young boy: “Yes son, what do you need?”
He paused, looked at everyone: “Preacher, preacher -- I ‘needs’ to go to the bathroom!”
Sometimes, you just have to laugh!
I know what you’re thinking, “Being a minister is serious business!” Yes it is. I’m often exposed to the most sensitive and tragic moments in a person’s life. Often, when there is an illness, death or marital dispute, I receive the call to listen and offer the wisdom and comfort of God’s presence.
But over the years, I have discovered something profound. God has a wonderful sense of humor and God’s creatures were created to laugh as well as cry. Jesus said in Luke 6:21. “God blesses you who weep now, for the time will come when you will laugh with joy.” What a great promise!
This is what I’ve learned about laughter:
• Laughter can calm your fears.
• Laughter can restore your hope.
• Laughter can ease your pain.
• Laughter can strengthen your resolve.
• Laughter can turn arrogance into humility.
Many years ago, I returned to my home church for the first time since becoming a minister. I was nervous about how friends and family would respond. After all, these people only knew me as a wise-cracking teenager and salesman. Now, I was coming back to their congregation as a pastor. What a change! How would they react to the new me?
There was no need to worry. After the worship service, everyone gathered to offer congratulations and praise. Well, except for one older gentleman. For a moment he stayed in the background and quietly watched. Then, he slowly walked forward, planted himself directly in front of me and stared deeply into my eyes for several seconds. (It seemed like hours!) With just a trace of a smile beginning to crack his stony face, he uttered the words that would shatter any sense of false pride, I might consider claiming.
“Larry, if God can turn you into a preacher, He can save just about anyone!”
What could I say? Sometimes, you just have to laugh!
Wednesday, August 11, 2010
Barbecue and Encouragement
To get there you just have to know how to get there. It’s located on an old road that used to be beside another road, now an interstate. Once there you will stand in line for at least fifteen to thirty minutes. If you’re lucky enough to get a table, you may share the space with another group. So, why would anyone, especially someone as impatient as me, go to all this trouble? Because it’s quite simply the best barbecue sandwich ever placed between my lips and obviously many people agree. Read on.
In 1971, a roadside food-stand opened near Williamsburg, Virginia called Pierce’s Pitt Bar-B-Cue. This so-called restaurant was nothing more than a shack with an order window. Only one meal was served: barbecue on a bun, with coleslaw or without, plus French fries and a drink. No one complained because Pierce’s Pitt simply served the best barbecue in the world. Their meat was slow-cooked in a special pit behind the store and mixed in a tomato sauce that can only be described as -- heavenly. Truckers from Florida to New York spread the word on their CB radios and the rest is history.
Several years later the two-lane highway became four and a wire fence was erected cutting off Pierce’s Pit Bar-B-Cue but by now, it made no difference. Cars and trucks by the dozen simply stopped along the side of the road while people scaled the fence to walk over and place their order. Later an exit ramp was built nearby partly because of the traffic jams caused by this little food-stand.
Over the last thirty years, the roadside stand became a full service restaurant and the surrounding area is now full of outlet stores, hotels and many other attractions in addition to nearby Colonial Williamsburg. Was the success of Pierce’s Pitt Bar-B-Cue the reason why all the change occurred? Maybe, maybe not, but Pierce’s Pitt Bar-B-Cue is an interesting part of the Williamsburg story.
Why am I telling you this? Because I discovered Pierce’s Pitt in 1971 while traveling from home to college. I was one of those nuts who parked a car on the side of the road to climb the fence and place an order. At least once a year, I still visit the Williamsburg area and you can bet that I will find an excuse to eat one of those delicious barbecue sandwiches. Are you getting hungry yet?
Also in 1971, I preached my very first sermon in church. Now don’t get any ideas. I was not yet a minister. You may wonder if I was even born in 1971 because I look so young. (Please don’t answer. Let me enjoy the fantasy.) Actually, I was in my first year of college and not doing well. I was lonely, homesick and scared. Grades were terrible and I was worried about telling mom and dad. One night, there was a call from the pastor of our church asking me to preach in December for youth Sunday.
His invitation changed my whole outlook. Never once, had I seriously imagined myself standing in a pulpit. Preachers were people to admire but me actually preaching? Never! Suddenly my life had meaning again. The library rather than the local tavern became my next stop that night in order to research a topic. Within days there were seven pages of notes in my folder. I was ready.
On the big day, I wore my finest (and only) suit. The service seemed to last forever before finally coming to my part. When the big moment came, I confidently strode to the pulpit area, laid out my notes and began to speak. There was so much to say; my hopes and dreams. What a real church should and could be. Was it me or did time fly? I finished, sat down, looked at my watch and gasped. It was only 11:30. My entire sermon lasted six minutes – six whole minutes. It was probably the shortest worship service ever. People still remember how early they got out of church one day, because of me.
Fifteen years went by before I would again stand in the pulpit. I never had any intention of becoming a preacher. Looking back, however, I’ve discovered that every experience along the way was carefully crafted by God to shape and mold me. The encouragement of a church and pastor who believed in me was an invaluable aid toward shaping my future. For that encouragement, I will always be grateful.
In 1971, I had a lot in common with a little roadside stand, Pierce’s Pitt Bar-B-Cue. We were both just beginning and our future success depended upon so many factors. Looking back, I realize the reason we are both still around is because of the support we received along the way. Maybe this is why I encourage youth to become a visible part of our worship services. I pray they will receive the same sort of encouragement that changed my life.
Here is what the Bible says about encouragement: “Without wavering, let us hold tightly to the hope we say we have, for God can be trusted to keep his promise. Think of ways to encourage one another to outbursts of love and good deeds.” (Hebrews 10:23-25)
First, we are commanded to stay strong in our faith and continue to trust in God’s promises. So many are watching everything we say and do. Our continuing trust in God despite the obstacles we face is a huge part of our witness to others. Second, we are commanded to look for ways to encourage one another not just in general but specifically toward outbursts of love and good deeds.
The encouragement of ecstatic customers turned a barbecue stand into a cultural phenomenon. The encouragement of a preacher changed my life. Your encouragement always makes a difference. As followers of Christ we can be a wonderful source of encouragement along the way whether the road leads to the pulpit or to the barbecue pit.
In 1971, a roadside food-stand opened near Williamsburg, Virginia called Pierce’s Pitt Bar-B-Cue. This so-called restaurant was nothing more than a shack with an order window. Only one meal was served: barbecue on a bun, with coleslaw or without, plus French fries and a drink. No one complained because Pierce’s Pitt simply served the best barbecue in the world. Their meat was slow-cooked in a special pit behind the store and mixed in a tomato sauce that can only be described as -- heavenly. Truckers from Florida to New York spread the word on their CB radios and the rest is history.
Several years later the two-lane highway became four and a wire fence was erected cutting off Pierce’s Pit Bar-B-Cue but by now, it made no difference. Cars and trucks by the dozen simply stopped along the side of the road while people scaled the fence to walk over and place their order. Later an exit ramp was built nearby partly because of the traffic jams caused by this little food-stand.
Over the last thirty years, the roadside stand became a full service restaurant and the surrounding area is now full of outlet stores, hotels and many other attractions in addition to nearby Colonial Williamsburg. Was the success of Pierce’s Pitt Bar-B-Cue the reason why all the change occurred? Maybe, maybe not, but Pierce’s Pitt Bar-B-Cue is an interesting part of the Williamsburg story.
Why am I telling you this? Because I discovered Pierce’s Pitt in 1971 while traveling from home to college. I was one of those nuts who parked a car on the side of the road to climb the fence and place an order. At least once a year, I still visit the Williamsburg area and you can bet that I will find an excuse to eat one of those delicious barbecue sandwiches. Are you getting hungry yet?
Also in 1971, I preached my very first sermon in church. Now don’t get any ideas. I was not yet a minister. You may wonder if I was even born in 1971 because I look so young. (Please don’t answer. Let me enjoy the fantasy.) Actually, I was in my first year of college and not doing well. I was lonely, homesick and scared. Grades were terrible and I was worried about telling mom and dad. One night, there was a call from the pastor of our church asking me to preach in December for youth Sunday.
His invitation changed my whole outlook. Never once, had I seriously imagined myself standing in a pulpit. Preachers were people to admire but me actually preaching? Never! Suddenly my life had meaning again. The library rather than the local tavern became my next stop that night in order to research a topic. Within days there were seven pages of notes in my folder. I was ready.
On the big day, I wore my finest (and only) suit. The service seemed to last forever before finally coming to my part. When the big moment came, I confidently strode to the pulpit area, laid out my notes and began to speak. There was so much to say; my hopes and dreams. What a real church should and could be. Was it me or did time fly? I finished, sat down, looked at my watch and gasped. It was only 11:30. My entire sermon lasted six minutes – six whole minutes. It was probably the shortest worship service ever. People still remember how early they got out of church one day, because of me.
Fifteen years went by before I would again stand in the pulpit. I never had any intention of becoming a preacher. Looking back, however, I’ve discovered that every experience along the way was carefully crafted by God to shape and mold me. The encouragement of a church and pastor who believed in me was an invaluable aid toward shaping my future. For that encouragement, I will always be grateful.
In 1971, I had a lot in common with a little roadside stand, Pierce’s Pitt Bar-B-Cue. We were both just beginning and our future success depended upon so many factors. Looking back, I realize the reason we are both still around is because of the support we received along the way. Maybe this is why I encourage youth to become a visible part of our worship services. I pray they will receive the same sort of encouragement that changed my life.
Here is what the Bible says about encouragement: “Without wavering, let us hold tightly to the hope we say we have, for God can be trusted to keep his promise. Think of ways to encourage one another to outbursts of love and good deeds.” (Hebrews 10:23-25)
First, we are commanded to stay strong in our faith and continue to trust in God’s promises. So many are watching everything we say and do. Our continuing trust in God despite the obstacles we face is a huge part of our witness to others. Second, we are commanded to look for ways to encourage one another not just in general but specifically toward outbursts of love and good deeds.
The encouragement of ecstatic customers turned a barbecue stand into a cultural phenomenon. The encouragement of a preacher changed my life. Your encouragement always makes a difference. As followers of Christ we can be a wonderful source of encouragement along the way whether the road leads to the pulpit or to the barbecue pit.
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