Tuesday, March 29, 2011

Things Change

As we get older things change… have you noticed?

  • We still wear cool shades… only they’re prescription.
  • I still occasionally browse in the record department… but my music is easy listening.
  • You may still play softball… for just a few innings then you’re disabled for two weeks.
  • We can still party with the best of them… as long as we’re home by 10:00 PM.

As I get older, I seem to have lost control over life’s sudden changes. There was a period years ago, when my father died, my daughter moved back home to seek a fresh start, which is good news but requires a lot of adjustments. My son graduated from college and began a new career, which is great news but there are emotional adjustments. Whew… that’s a lot of change.

When I was young… I felt totally in control of everything. I wanted to change the world and make it a better place. I imagined a career path that would lead to the top. I wanted a perfect marriage to match my perfect children. God would be so proud. What happened? Actually, we seldom control what happens around us. Most of us will not dramatically change the world. Our career path is far from perfect. Marriages falter and flounder. Children struggle and even fail. As we get older we even lose the ability to control our bodies as we become ever more dependent on those who care for us.

What a bummer! Why are you so depressing, Larry? Don’t give up on me yet. There is hope but first we must understand how suddenly things can change and how easily our lives can spin out of control.

Even the Bible changes… (What?) No, not the words themselves but how it affects our lives. For example: When I first committed myself to becoming a serious Christian, Zig Ziglar a famous motivational speaker and author, signed the book he wrote that changed my life “Confessions of a Happy Christian” and then added John 15:1-7. I couldn’t wait to look it up in the Bible. Here is a portion of the Scripture:

Jesus said: “I am the true vine, and my Father is the gardener. He cuts off every branch that doesn’t produce fruit, and he prunes the branches that do bear fruit so they will produce even more… Remain in me, and I will remain in you. For a branch cannot produce fruit if it is severed from the vine, and you cannot be fruitful apart from me… Those who remain in me, and I in them, will produce much fruit.”

I loved these verses then and love them now. One word beckoned to me as if it were my own… fruit. “You will produce much fruit.” I can do that. This is what I should do with my life. Be fruitful for God. I was a professional motivator, so nobody could bear more fruit than me. (No self-esteem problem here.) I rushed back to work determined to bear a lot of fruit… and I failed miserably! Why?

Zig Ziglar gave me a pin to wear that displayed a fish with the number seven. The idea is that someone would notice the fish and ask: “I know that the fish stands for Christian but what does the seven mean?” There is the opportunity to talk about my relationship with Jesus Christ. I was prepared to say, “You are right. The fish means that I am a Christian and the seven is a reminder that I should serve God all seven days of the week.”

Wow! I knew this was a great way to share my faith.

There was just one problem… no one asked about the pin! I was ready. I had a plan. I was in control. All I needed was an opportunity. Yet, nothing happened! What was wrong? How can an excited new Christian be ready to witness and have no one give them a chance? After a fruitless few weeks, I was sitting alone at my desk wondering if my experience with God was a delusion.

Do you see any similarities between my difficulties over the past few weeks and my struggles as a new Christian? The answers mean changing the way we look at the scripture reading. I was focusing on the wrong word. For me to understand what was happening, I needed to listen more carefully to what Jesus was teaching.

It’s not the fruit that makes this verse special. The right word is…

Oops! Not yet! Read John 15:1-7... then wait for the next column. 

Sunday, March 27, 2011

Prayers for Sunday March 27

Prayers

Steve and Sandra Parker – Their daughter Suzanne lost her child, Noah to still birth.
Herndon and Kim Jeffreys – Daughter Noie had surgery on her hand yesterday.
Roanoke District – Mission Sunday in the midst of threats of snow.
All of our churches and people who must travel and work in the midst of the storm.
All of our pastors who may be in the midst of pastoral leadership changes.

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Friday, I witnessed two funerals. The first was a celebration of a life well lived. He was the patriarch of a large and faithful family. The service was full of stories about his many faceted lives as musician, postman, restaurant owner, father, grandfather and even a few stories of playing the slots in Vegas. He was described as a troubadour who told stories and in those stories we felt the presence of God. We leaned and appreciated the life of someone who loved God and his family. It was a time for grieving but also a time for celebration.

The second funeral was for a baby who died 2 weeks before delivery. This was a graveside service for a life that was never lived. The grandfather, Steve Parker who is a pastor on our district stood before all of us and described the hopes and plans of each member of the family: A niece who wanted to babysit; a brother, who wanted a baby brother; an aunt who wanted a child to love but not be responsible for; his own dreams of going fishing with all of his grandchildren in tow. This was a funeral that was never supposed to happen and he honestly and poignantly described his family as broken hearted.

As he described his emotions, Steve also shared his faith. How God had surrounded him and his family with signs of love in the midst of their grief. Steve reminded us all how the church was present for him when he needed it. In the midst of his broken heart, Steve and his family found God offering comfort and strength. In the end, Steve found a way to give thanks to God even in the midst of his pain.

I saw God in at work this day in a way we often take for granted. God through the churches we serve brings healing comfort in so many ways. God is there in our worship, in our many acts of kindness and in our prayers.

It is interesting how the devotions I read often match up with what is happening in my daily life. This morning I read a prayer written by Dietrich Bonhoeffer from “Devotions for Lent” reflections from the Bible by Mosaic.

I cannot do this alone.

O God, early in the morning I cry to you.
Help me to pray.
And to concentrate my thoughts on you;
I cannot do this alone.

In me there is darkness,
But with you there is light;
I am lonely but you do not leave me;
I am feeble in heart but with you there is help;
I am restless but with you there is peace.
In me there is bitterness but with you there is patience;
I do not understand your ways,
But you know the way for me…

Restore me to liberty,
And enable me to live now
That I may answer before you and before others.
Lord, whatever this day may bring,
Your name be praised.
Amen.

n  Dietrich Bonhoeffer

I can picture Bonhoeffer lingering in his prayer over these sentences…

I cannot do this alone…
In me there is darkness but with you there is light…
I am lonely but you do not leave me…
I am feeble in heart but with you there is help…
I am restless but with you there is peace…
In me there is bitterness but with you there is patience…
I do not understand your ways but you know the way for me…

And finally the faith Dietrich possesses is illustrated in the words: “Lord, whatever this day may bring, Your name be praised.”

In the same Lenten devotional, I ran across this paragraph. “Sixteen hundred years ago, John Cassian published an account of his conversations with monks living in a desert. One older monk , Isaac, shared this prayer from Psalm 70 with John on his visit. Even today many Christians around the globe begin times of prayer with this verse. It serves as a clarion call to lean on God in the midst of our independent culture.”

“I look up to the mountains – does my help come from there? My help comes from the Lord, who made heaven and earth!” – Psalm 121:1-2

My prayer today is that you feel the power of God as you look up to the mountains. May you know that your help comes from the Lord who made heaven and earth.

May you know that the worship you attend and the prayers you pray matter. God is at work within and around you.

Friday, March 25, 2011

Ship of Fools?

Did you hear about the man traveling from New York to Atlanta on a business trip? Upon arrival, he sent an e-mail message to his wife but it went to the wrong address. Instead the note was delivered to a pastor’s wife whose husband recently died. She read the message and promptly fainted. “Honey, I made it okay, but it sure is hot down here!”

When the funeral is over and dirt is being shoveled onto your fresh grave… where will your soul be? Will you be in heavenly bliss or will it be a little hot? I know, I know. I’ve gone from story telling to meddling. People cringe when talking about spiritual matters of any kind, but mention heaven or hell and most of us start looking for a polite way to exit the room.

On the other hand, people are also becoming fascinated with the topic. Like Job we are asking: “If mortals die, can they live again?” (Job ) Movies and books about death and the afterlife are increasingly reaching the best-seller lists. One TV series mom, worried that her son would ask about the meaning of death remembered a statement from her father: “If you pull the plug on a refrigerator, does it keep running?”  

I’ll never forget her next comment: “Between the ages of five and seven, I thought when you died the Goodwill truck hauled you away.”

Is that all there is to life and death? Absolutely not!

Lee Strobel, an award-winning journalist at the Chicago Tribune made the journey from spiritual skeptic to teaching pastor at Willow Creek Community Church. He investigated the truth of Heaven or Hell in his book: “God’s Outrageous Claims.” His central point is that if you can believe Christ rose from the dead… you can have faith in the existence of heaven and hell.

Lee investigated the resurrection as an experienced reporter. He questioned leading authorities of history, the Bible, medicine, law and psychology. Lee researched historical sources and even checked the reliability of eyewitness accounts. His conclusion:

“But we can proceed with bold assurance, thanks to the evidence of history that establishes with convincing clarity how Jesus not only preceded us in death but also came back from the dead and blazed the trail to heaven.” 

John said it best: “I write this to you who believe in the Son of God, so that you may know you have eternal life.” (1 John 5:13) Christ rose from the dead so you can confidently believe in your own eternity secure in the knowledge that God loved you enough to sacrifice it all on the cross.

Paul promised in a letter to the Romans: “And I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God’s love. Death can’t and life can’t. The angels can’t and the demons can’t. Our fears for today, our worries about tomorrow and even the powers of hell can’t keep God’s love away. Whether we are high above the sky or in the deepest ocean, nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God…” (8:38-39)

Don’t take my word for it; investigate the claims for yourself. Once accepted, you are faced with some significant choices. Do you pursue heaven or hell?

I bought a neck tie recently to match a new suit. Later, I noticed the late Jerry Garcia of the Grateful Dead designed and named the tie: “The Ship of Fools.” According to newspaper accounts written shortly after his death, Jerry Garcia due to his exploits with women and drugs was often described as a wild and crazy party animal who knew no sensible boundaries. If true, than Jerry Garcia may have been on his own “Ship of Fools.” 

What about you? Are you on a “ship of fools” with no happy ending in sight or have you chosen “Christ’s lifeboat to eternity” full of promises that our fears for today and our worries about tomorrow will never keep God’s love away?

Make the choice today and I’ll look forward to seeing you on the lifeboat!

Tuesday, March 22, 2011

Trust, Faith and The Dentist

Describe three scenes from movies so scary, you still have flashbacks:

·         A flock of birds sitting, waiting, staring -- at you: Alfred Hitchcock’s, “The Birds”
·         You hit the beach and enter the water, suddenly a telltale fin appears and the cadence begins; dum-dum, dum-dum: “Jaws.”
·         Dustin Hoffman strapped in a dentist’s chair while the villain, stands over his open mouth with a drill and menacingly says, “Tell me everything!” You hear the drill whirring as Dustin Hoffman - screams! “The Marathon Man” 

I had a chance to relive all three movie scenes recently.

I was sitting in the dentist office and saw birds perched around the room, watching, waiting and the cadence began; dum-dum, dum-dum as I heard the nurse call my name. Suddenly I was strapped in the chair, looking up helplessly as the “mad” dentist held a whirring drill over my mouth and said, “Tell me everything!”

I screamed!

I’m kidding! I’m kidding, but I did go to the local dentist for root canal surgery. He’s a friend and an excellent dentist but I couldn’t stop my overactive imagination. Every time he placed that drill near my mouth, I wanted to -- scream!

“Come on Larry, you’re being a wimp!” Yes, I am. My dentist took great pains (poor word choice) to do everything just right. But suppose he made a mistake? After all, he’s only human. Something could distract him. The drill could slip! Couldn’t it? Ouch!!   

Actually, the surgery went well with no complications but for two long hours the future of my mouth was dependent upon someone else’s skills. I had no choice but to place my teeth and my trust in the hands of another. I hate to admit this, but trust does not come easily for me.

A dictionary defines trust as: “a confident reliance on the integrity, honesty or justice of another; faith.” Trust for me was a confident reliance on the skills of my dentist. Trust for you may be:

-       beginning a new relationship after a messy break-up.
-       preparing yourself for needed surgery.
-       allowing your children appropriate freedoms and responsibilities.
-       giving God more control over your life.

Trust would best describe Jesus’ attitude while approaching the end of his earthly life and ministry. Shortly after a last meal with disciples and friends, Jesus went to the garden of Gethsemane to pray. “Father, if you are willing, please take this cup of suffering away from me. Yet I want your will, not mine.” Jesus knew about the suffering to come yet in the end placed his confident reliance on the integrity, honesty and justice of God. There can be no greater trust.

Jesus’ prayer was answered, not by having the suffering removed but by receiving strength. “An angel from heaven came down and strengthened him.” (Luke 22:43) It was enough. Even on the cross Jesus’ last sentence was from Psalm 31:5: “I entrust my spirit into your hand,” in other words, I place my total trust and confident reliance in God.

Some other Biblical examples of trust:

·         “That is why we have a great High Priest who has gone to heaven, Jesus the Son of God. Let us cling to him and never stop trusting him.” (Hebrews 4:14)
·         “Without wavering, let us hold tightly to the hope we say we have, for God can be trusted to keep his promise.” (Hebrews 10:23)
·         “For every child of God defeats this evil world by trusting Christ to give the victory.” (1 John 5:4)

What about you? Are you learning to trust others? How much do you trust God? Learning to trust is a critical part of faith.

So, the next time I go to the dentist office, I may still relive a few horror movie scenes but I’ll do my best not to; “scream!”

Sunday, March 20, 2011

Prayers on Sunday, March 20, 2011

Prayers

Prayers for the conflict in Libya as it continues to worsen.

Prayers for Japan as they struggle with trying to control the nuclear reactors.

Prayers for our pastors and churches during this time of pastoral leadership change.

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In my Lenten reading, I ran across a prayer by Augustine.

Prayer to the Holy Spirit

Breathe in me,
O Holy Spirit,
that my thoughts may all be holy.

Act in me,
O Holy Spirit,
that my work, too may be holy.

Draw my heart,
O Holy Spirit,
that I love only what is holy.

Strengthen me,
O Holy Spirit,
to defend all that is holy.

Guard me, then,
O Holy Spirit,
that I may always be holy.

-       Augustine of Hippo

Centered around the Holy Spirit, the first lines all point to what the Holy Spirit does.

Breathe in me
Act in me
Draw my heart
Strengthen me
Guard me

The final line of each stanza helps us understand our response.

that my thoughts may all be holy.
that my work too may be holy.
that I love only what is holy.
to defend all that is holy.
that I may always be holy.

In the center of it all is God’s Holy Spirit.

This is what I pray for you and I today.

May The Holy Spirit...

...breathe in you, act in you, draw your heart, strengthen you, guard you.

So that,

All your thoughts, may all be holy.
All your work too may be holy.
That you love only what is holy.
That you defend all that is holy.

That you and I may always be holy.

This Sunday morning...

I will be praying that you and I will always be holy throgh the work, grace and power of God's Holy Spirit.

Friday, March 18, 2011

Sri Lanka

As you read this account of another Tsunami and the devastation of a village within the Sri Lanka, please continue to pray for the people of Japan as they continue recovery efforts and face nuclear reactor meltdown. May God guide us to provide the right kind of help they need.  

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We landed in the capital city of Colombo, location of the only international airport in Sri Lanka. This is where I discovered my first lesson about living in Sri Lanka: there is traffic, lots of traffic. The small, narrow roads were jammed with bicycles, motor bikes, cars, rickshaws, cows, dogs, pedestrians and trucks. Everyone drove fast, monitored the many mirrors around their vehicles and kept one hand constantly on the horn: beep, beep! There are two rules: the largest vehicle always wins and you better beep before you swerve.

Colombo was on the other side of the island, away from the tsunami zone, but everyone seemed to know someone affected by the waves. Amazingly, just a few miles away, a train jammed with hundreds of passengers was destroyed as the waves literally curved around the island.

Len Stevens, news anchor for our local station WSET-TV, visited the area and was told as the water approached, someone or maybe several people in a state of panic pulled the emergency stop cord. The train was moving away from the oncoming wave but, instead, stopped and received the full blow.

After the train tipped over, local residents told Len, you could hear the cries of the wounded and dying for hours; but because of the very real fear of another Tsunami, no potential rescuers approached the train.

The next day, we flew to the other side of Sri Lanka to visit the tsunami-ravaged beaches. Even the news reports could not prepare us for what we were about to witness.

Demolished hulks once used as fishing boats littered the beach area of Kalmunai. Piles of brick and rubble, scattered among the palm trees, represented what used to be houses and small businesses. The desolation and destruction caused by the tsunami stretched for miles along the beach and for at least a mile inland. We witnessed an endless array of destruction, despair and hopelessness.

Flapping in the breeze by one house was a large white flag. Residents said, “The white flag represents our enormous sadness and grief.” In other areas near the beach, clusters of the same white flags were used to mark mass graves.

Despite the overwhelming tragedy, young children were the first to greet us and appeared remarkably exuberant as they scrambled to pose for pictures. There were giggles and laughter as we distributed kits filled with household necessities, school supplies, games and Frisbees. Yet, when we mentioned the word tsunami, their faces became more somber. One little girl spoke of losing her entire family, including her mother and father, three brothers and one sister.

Two images on the beach I will never forget: First, a little child’s flip flop, buried near a pile of bricks that once formed a house. Holding the shoe, I could only imagine what must have happened to the little girl who once played on this beach.

Second, is the image of a woman’s yellow blouse billowing gently in the breeze, caught on a tree limb approximately ten feet off the ground. How did a blouse become lodged so high? How could one wave cause so much destruction?

We were told the tsunami was actually made up of three consecutive waves. Each one would sweep through the area, enveloping everything in its path for miles, but then the water would quickly recede with a powerful suction that literally swept everything back out to sea.

Women and children were especially vulnerable to being washed away. Hours or even days later, the bodies of the victims washed back ashore. But many have never been found.
Now imagine this: We witnessed the destruction on one beach in one village of Sri Lanka. The Tsunami struck 11 different countries all around the Indian Ocean. Within Sri Lanka there were 500 miles of shoreline, all hit by the gigantic waves. Yet in this one area, Kalmunai, nearly 3,000 people died. An elementary school near the beach enrolled 62 students — 57 died. A church claimed 350 members; 61 were gone.

A woman approached me with a plastic bag clutched in her hands. She reached inside and handed me a type-written piece of paper describing how she lost all seven of her children to the tsunami. Then she handed over a white card containing the name, age and description of each child. Through an interpreter, she said to us, “Please pray for my family. I have lost them all.”

All I could do was exclaim, “I am so sorry!” and cry.

Yet, while walking through town, we were frequently greeted with warm smiles and urged to stop for a moment and visit a tent or other place of shelter. Noticeably polite, everyone was eager to offer hospitality. They all asked one question: “From where did you come?”

A few asked for handouts, but only a few. Most simply wanted to share their stories and thank us for visiting. When asked what we could do to help them, the answer was nearly always the same: “We are fishers of the sea. We want to fish again?”

There was one tense incident. We were surrounded by a crowd led by a large man we later discovered was the town leader. They seemed upset. Not knowing their intentions, we were getting scared.

Through an interpreter we heard, “You people come to our town with your cameras, take pictures and make many promises. Then you go home and give us no help. Others receive aid but because we are Muslim and you are Christian, we get nothing.”

“Suppose you see someone who needs food or clothing and you say, ‘Well, good-bye and God bless you; stay warm and eat well’ — but then you don’t give that person any food or clothing. What good does that do?” (James 2:15-16)

We made a promise to the crowd and the town of Kalmunai that we would not abandon them. Our group had traveled a long way to do something good. We were about to have our opportunity.

Amidst the rubble, I picked up a cluster of fishing net and showed it to several men as they described their desire to go back to work. “We must fish to survive!” they emphasized. Our guide told us that for approximately $3,000, a new fishing boat equipped with a motor and nets could be built in Sri Lanka. With each new boat, four families could go back to work.

Before leaving Kalmunai, we stopped at the home of our guide, R.K. Jeyakumaran, to visit his family and enjoy dinner. While there, we noticed a six-foot-high, dark line on every wall in the house. Mr. Jeyakumaran described how the waves swept through, leaving the watermark. Both, he and his wife sought safety on the roof, only to watch helplessly as their son and daughter were swept away. Both children were later found alive, but the reality and the horror of the tsunami was evident on his tear-filled face.

Still, despite the tragedy, we were beginning to find signs of God’s presence. Through the eyes of this godly family, we witnessed hope mixed with grief and we saw — in them and others — a strong determination to rebuild and start anew.

In the Bible, the book of Lamentations is written for a community facing tragedy: “The thought of my suffering and homelessness is bitter beyond words. I will never forget this awful time as I grieve over my loss. Yet I still dare to hope when I remember this: The unfailing love of the Lord never ends! By his mercies we have been kept from complete destruction. Great is his faithfulness; his mercies begin afresh each day. I say to myself, ‘The Lord is my inheritance; therefore, I will hope in him.’” (Lamentations 3:19-24)

God never guaranteed a life free from suffering and tragedy. What He did promise is this: “The unfailing love of the Lord never ends.” This is the assurance we must cherish, especially in the midst of unspeakable suffering.

“The Lord is my inheritance; therefore, I will hope in him.”

As the church, we are called by God to respond to suffering and tragedy wherever and whenever we find it. As we step out in faith, we not only discover the joy of helping others, but also experience the very presence of God.

In just three short days in Sri Lanka, we discovered tragedy beyond comprehension. But we also found practical needs we could meet:

1. The Kalmunai community needed fishing boats. The cost would be only $3,000 each if built in Sri Lanka. Each boat would provide four families a living income.

2. Funds distributed through reliable local contacts will stretch considerably farther than supplies purchased and shipped. We established connections and knew we could make a difference.

I left Kalmunai, forever saddened by the horrific tragedy we witnessed. Yet, I also left Sri Lanka hopeful, discovering a strong sense of familial love and a hardy determination to survive. God seemed to give our little group a unique opportunity for ministry which could make a real difference in Kalmunai, Sri Lanka. “Great is his faithfulness; his mercies begin afresh each day.”

During the long, 36-hour flight home, the four of us made plans to share pictures and stories. We vowed to work together to raise funds throughout the community in order to purchase as many fishing boats as possible for Kalmunai. We set our goal at 10 to 15 fishing boats, but at the time we wondered if it would be possible.

Our Community Reaches Out to Kalmunai

Within days of our return, people throughout the area responded. Money was raised by various churches to purchase boats, but groups and families also adopted the fishing boat idea as projects.

• One family in the real estate business donated the proceeds from the sale of a house toward a boat.

• A local bank board pooled their resources after their annual meeting and donated enough to purchase a boat.

• Sunday school classes, youth groups and women’s groups throughout the area worked to purchase boats.

By the end of the campaign, our community far surpassed our goal of 10 to 15 boats, eventually purchasing 33 boats for the people of Kalmunai. In addition, other donations were funneled directly to contacts made in Sri Lanka, preventing unnecessary confusion and expenses. But perhaps more importantly, a sense of hope was restored to Kalmunai as one community aided another.

Despite heroic efforts to provide fishing boats, there were complications even after the new boats arrived. Rev. Davidson, CEO of Gleaning For The World, told us that, as the first fishing boats arrived in Kalmunai, nothing happened; no one would actually venture out to sea to fish.

We discovered through interpreters that all of the fishermen were afraid to go back out to sea. They were afraid of the possible return of the tsunami, but even more tragically, afraid of catching fish in the same water that contained lost loved ones who were washed out to sea. They told the interpreter: “The possibility of eating fish that ate our relatives is just too much to bear.”

Finally, to satisfy our need for photographs, several volunteers agreed to take the new boats out. They immediately caught a record number of fish! This was interpreted as a positive omen from God so families from all over Kalmunai once again could return to their livelihood.

Four people left a small city in Virginia to travel half way around the world to Sri Lanka. At one point, I wondered if we were doing the right thing spending money to travel that could be better used to help those in need. Once we arrived however, we knew God brought the four of us together for a divine purpose.

• Ray Buchanan was our ever-present guide. His extensive experience traveling throughout the world, offering aid to those in need, helped the rest of us quickly go where we were needed most.

• Len Stevens, through his TV news reports, told the story of our trip and what happened so effectively that our entire community was motivated to take the action needed to help Kalmunai.

• Rev. Ron Davidson became the coordinator for the distribution of aid when we returned to Lynchburg. Through his efforts and contacts, the money that was raised made a huge difference.

• I was the church contact. The involvement of our church set an example and encouraged other churches to join our efforts.

Len Stevens remarked, “Normally, as a media person, my job is to present the news without bias or getting personally involved. But this time was different. I could tell the story and know that I was also encouraging the people of Lynchburg to make a difference for the people of Kalmunai.”

Still there was one thing we all missed out on: We never got the opportunity to see the looks on the faces of the leader and the people in Kalmunai when those 33 boats arrived. Someday, we hope to go back and revisit our newfound friends. Who knows — maybe we can do a little fishing.

In a country that is primarily Hindu and Muslim, the Christian church is making a difference and has become a significant source of aid and relief. Although it was outside our comfort zone, we accepted God’s challenge and he gave our little group an opportunity for ministry that will have a real impact. “Great is his faithfulness; his mercies begin afresh each day.”

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

Responding to God


Before reading this column, would you join me in saying a prayer for the people in Japan? The magnitude of the damage from the earthquake and the tsunami is potentially devastating. Already estimates have jumped from 1000 to 10,000 lives lost and it could get worse. In addition there are nuclear reactor meltdowns happening in several parts of the country.

Japan desperately needs our prayers and our help.

Today, I pray you will be inspired to step out of your comfort zone and do something different in the name of God.

Frequently, in meetings with other church leaders, I'm told: "There is little hope for our church to have any influence in even our community much less the world. We are small and only getting smaller so we can hardly pay our pastor much less effectively help anyone else. We have very few young people to give us energy. We have no money to pay additional staff salaries. Our volunteers are faithful but they are old and tired.  What are we to do?"

Having served churches for many years, I have discovered helpful answers.

1.    Don't allow yourself to get discouraged and quit.
2.    Pray to God right now for guidance and wisdom.
3.    Find something you can do and start doing it.
4.    Expect God to challenge you to think bigger.

Jesus told a parable that provides solid answers: "A man prepared a great feast and sent out many invitations. When all was ready, he sent his servant around to notify the guests that it was time for them to come. But they all began making excuses. One said he had just bought a field and wanted to inspect it. Another said he had just bought five pair of oxen and wanted to try them out. Another had just been married, so he said he couldn't come." (Luke 14:16-20)

God seems to be the 'man' in the parable inviting us, the church, to a great feast; so great, that nothing else should take precedence. The invitations come at first to the guests we would expect to attend any great feast. The so-called 'good' people of the community: land owners, shopkeepers and those commonly described as successful and influential: the same people who would also proudly claim membership to a church.

In other words, God is inviting the church first.

Yet, these very same people, 'good' people who receive gold embossed invitations from God are the ones who for one reason or another are simply unable to attend the most important event of all time: claiming to be busy buying land or other business necessities or too busy with personal matters.

Excuses! Good excuses but excuses just the same but don't judge them too quickly.

Remember the excuses given by our own church leaders? "We are so small. We have very few young people. We have no money. Our members are old and tired." Do they sound familiar?

What is God's response? "The servant returned and told his master what they had said. His master was angry and said, 'Go quickly into the streets and alleys of the city and invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, and the blind.' After the servant had done this, he reported, 'there is still room for more.' So his master said, 'Go out into the country lanes and behind the hedges and urge anyone you find to come, so that the house will be full. For none of those I invited first will get even the smallest taste of what I had prepared for them.'" (Luke 14:21-24)

Ouch!

As the church we receive the first invitation to God's feast but then we are expected to respond. If we don't, the implication is that God will be angry at us, invite others and we will miss out.

How are we to respond when we are so limited? What does God expect us to do? Do you remember my suggestions?

1.    Don't allow yourself to get discouraged and quit.
2.    Pray to God right now for guidance and wisdom.
3.    Find something you can do and start doing it.
4.    Expect God to challenge you to think bigger.

Obviously the 'feast' describes God's opportunity to be the church in a big way. Our response should be to say 'yes' with faith to the invitation knowing that serving God is more important than our occupation, our family or even our very lives. We say yes trusting God for answers, resources and courage to enable us to do far more than we ever imagined possible.

Can it really be that simple?

A few years ago, I would be sincerely struggling to give you a good answer to that question. Our church was growing and active in the community but we were not really a mission oriented church but we were about to be challenged by God.

Several of our members traveled to Jamaica to offer medical aid and church construction help. Their stories and the enthusiastic change God brought into their lives affected us all. At this point we were eager for more opportunities.

Then, we stepped out in faith to provide a home for Lawyers Road Missionary Baptist Church after a tornado destroyed their building. Later as a response to a $10 church-wide challenge, Jim Adams, one of our members would lead a community wide effort to help them rebuild.

Today their beautiful new church still stands as a testimony to what one individual, one church and one community can do to help others. But wait, God is not finished. This is just the beginning.
           
On December 26, 2004 a massive Tsunami swept the Indian Ocean. More than eleven countries were struck by the enormous waves with a loss of life estimated at more than 300,000 people.

Like most churches we raised money. But, now what could we do? How could we become more directly involved? As we searched for answers, God once again began to move within me and our church.

We visited "Gleaning for the World," a local aid agency specializing in getting equipment and supplies to the poorest countries in the world. Rev. Ron Davidson, the CEO offered two projects.

The first project involved receiving and sorting large bales of used hospital linens which we then boxed to be shipped to third-world countries. Within a matter of days, a large truck unloaded huge tightly packed bales of linens that when unpacked literally filled our gymnasium.

Hundreds of volunteers from three years old to the elderly, converged upon our church and for the next few days we sorted, folded and boxed literally thousands of hospital gowns and sheets.

The second project from Gleaning for the World involved using the money we raised to ship 40,000 pounds of rice from Vietnam to Sri Lanka, enough to feed at least 150,000 people several meals.

Remember the four suggestions?

1.    Don't allow yourself to get discouraged and quit.
2.    Pray to God right now for guidance and wisdom.
3.    Find something you can do and start doing it.
4.    Expect God to challenge you to think bigger.

God was about to challenge us to think bigger.

Rev. Davidson called and asked: "Would you like to go to the tsunami zone and see the rice delivered for yourself, assess the damage and look for additional opportunities to help?"

I thought he meant we were visiting another aid agency nearby. "Sure," I said. "Where are we going?"

"Sri Lanka," he replied.

What could I say but "Yes!" Ten days later, I secured a passport, received my shots and began a series of flights that would last over thirty-six hours and take us literally half way around the world.

Four of us would make the trip: Ray Buchanan with "Stop Hunger Now," Ron Davidson with "Gleaning for the World," Len Stevens, anchor of WSET-TV our local news television station and myself.

A guidebook describes Sri Lanka as, "The Teardrop of India: a tear of sheer joy frozen in mid-air." Others describe it as the original Garden of Eden and proudly point to places named after Adam, the first man. How could such a beautiful country face such massive destruction? We were about to find out.

Next: Sri Lanka

Main point: Our response should be to say 'yes'  with faith to God's invitation knowing that serving our Lord is more important than our occupation, our family and even our very lives. We say yes trusting God for answers, resources and courage to enable us to do far more than we ever imagined.

It's important to remember:

  1. Don't allow yourself to get discouraged and quit.
  2. Pray to God right now for guidance and wisdom.
  3. Find something you can do and start doing it.
  4. Expect God to challenge you to think bigger.

Questions:

  1. The temptation for churches is to say we are too small to make a difference, yet God teaches differently? How can we make a difference in our community or world?
  2. How can you find out what services are needed in your community?
  3. How can community needs be matched with your gifts and talents are those of your family or church?
4.      Don't get discouraged. Pray. Find something. Keep thinking bigger.