Tuesday, October 12, 2010

Scams, Con Artists & Jacob

Recently I received this email: “I am former Mrs. Abibat Said, a widow to the late Alhaji Mahi Said. I am 72 years old, suffering from a long time bout with cancer. My late husband was very wealthy but he died during the Gulf war as well as my only son. I inherited all his business and wealth. I have now decided to divide part of this wealth by contributing to the development of philanthropism in Africa, America and Asia. I selected your organization to receive $10 Million dollars. Please immediately get in touch with my physician and business manager to file for the transfer. I await your urgent reply.”

“You will receive ten million dollars?” Wow! This seems astonishing until you hear the rest of the story. People responding to the request are told to simply divulge their bank account number and a huge deposit will soon follow. What actually occurs is a huge withdrawal -- of every dollar in your account. 

This is commonly known as the “Nigerian Email Scam” named after the country where it originated. I still receive one or two of these letters every week. Authorities estimate victims have lost billions. Fortunately, I was never one of those.

Not so fortunately, I became casualty to another internet scam. Four years ago, an order came over the Sowing Seeds Ministry website for 175 copies of one of my books with a credit card order for the books, shipping and a donation to our ministry. The address was a remote area of Africa so. I was suspicious especially because the order was so large. Why would anyone in Africa want so many copies of this particular book? Yet the entire order and over $1,000 of shipping charges was approved.

Still suspicious, I called my local banker and asked his advice. “Do you have the money?” he asked.

I did. “Then ship it and don’t worry,” he said.

Oops! My banker was wrong. When you use a charge card in a store and sign a receipt, the credit card company guarantees payment to the merchant even when fraud is involved. But since there is no signature when buying products over the internet there are few guarantees given to seller.

Days later, I received a phone call from the fraud division of the credit card company informing me that the order was processed with a stolen credit card. Within days, all the money was withdrawn from my business account. Our little ministry was successfully scammed out of thousands of dollars and 175 copies of my book are now somewhere in Africa.

When describing the first email scam, I felt smart and astute but succumbing to the lures of the second scam made me feel vulnerable, embarrassed and angry. “How could I be so stupid? Why didn’t I act on my suspicions? Why would someone want to harm our ministry?”

During this same period of time, I was preparing a sermon series about Leaders of the Old Testament. I read the story of Jacob and his twin brother Esau in Genesis. Jacob was the second twin and he is said to have been holding tightly to Esau’s heel during birth. The name Jacob means, “grabber” or “deceiver.” I discovered that Jacob was a Biblical con artist and his main mark was his brother Esau.

Jacob grabbed and deceived to get everything he wanted out of life. He grabbed his brother’s birthright with what I call, “The World’s Most Expensive Stew.” He stole Esau’s blessing and honor by disguising himself in front of their father. Caught in his deceit, Jacob did what comes natural for any con artist -- he ran away. For years he stayed with his Uncle Laban yet another con artist in the family.

After being deceived and scammed, I’m beginning to understand how Jacob’s brother, Esau felt. But after years of living with Laban we find Jacob wants to pack up his family and return home. All his life, Jacob had been running but now the con-artist was coming home to face Esau, his family and God.

Next: In one of the most unusual encounters in the Bible, Jacob, the con-artist faces the music and learns a valuable lesson from God about confession and forgiveness.

Sunday, October 10, 2010

Bathroom and Literacy

Recently, at a nearby restaurant, I left my table to go to the bathroom. Looking back, I remember thinking this particular bathroom looked, somehow -- well, different. I soon found out why. While washing my hands, the door opened and a woman stood there looking at me with an inane smirk. “What is she grinning about and what’s she doing in the men’s room?” I thought, but maintaining my composure, I politely smiled and then gasped as she pointed a finger to a sign which clearly said -- WOMEN.

“Can’t you read?”  she asked and started laughing, hysterically. After a mumbled apology, I hurried back to the table and hustled my family out of the restaurant before she could come out of the restroom and tell the whole world about this bizarre man who visits women’s bathrooms.

Okay, you can stop laughing now! It was a silly mistake but suppose I really couldn’t read?

How would I know which bathroom to enter, drive a car, fill out an employment application, read a newspaper or study a Bible? How would you hold a job, shop for groceries or order a meal? Is there anything more traumatic than being unable to read in our information-driven society?

  • According to information distributed by ProLiteracy.org: Literacy is the ability to read, write, compute, and use technology at a level that enables an individual to reach his or her full potential as a parent, employee, and community member.
  • There are 774 million adults around the world who are illiterate in their native languages. Two-thirds of the world’s illiterate adults are women.
  • In the U.S., 30 million people over age 16 — 14 percent of the country’s adult population — don’t read well enough to understand a newspaper story written at the eighth grade level or fill out a job application. The United States ranks fifth on adult literacy skills when compared to other industrialized nations.
  • Adult low literacy can be connected to almost every socio-economic issue in the United States: More than 60 percent of all state and federal corrections inmates can barely read and write. Low literacy’s effects cost the U.S. $225 billion or more each year in non-productivity in the workforce, crime, and loss of tax revenue due to unemployment.

Why? There’s no single reason. One non-reader dropped out of school early. Another has an emotional or physical disability. Another grew up with non-reading parents. English is a foreign language for some non-readers. Regardless of the cause, illiteracy hurts us all. Illiteracy costs our society financially, emotionally and spiritually.    

Proverbs is clear: “Happy is the person who finds wisdom and gains understanding. For the profit of wisdom is better than silver and her wages are better than gold. Wisdom is more precious than rubies; nothing you desire can compare with her. She offers you life in her right hand and riches and honor in her left. She will guide you down delightful paths; all her ways are satisfying. Wisdom is a tree of life to those who embrace her. (3:13-18)

“So, Larry, what can I do?”

“You can volunteer to help someone read by volunteering or supporting a literacy group in your community.” Volunteers in a typical group meet individually with students and help nonreaders learn basic skills. Tutoring is usually offered free of charge to anyone with the desire to learn. Your donations provide training for the tutors plus books and other materials for the student. 

One student dictated this letter to a tutor after only a few months: “I started school when I was 7. I liked going through the 4th grade. When I got in the 5th grade, I started having problems— I got in trouble that summer. I was sent to reform school when I was 13. I never went back to school. I can read a whole lot better now since I’ve been coming here (to reading class). I enjoy reading more too. I want to get my GED so I can get a good job. My ‘tutor’ is really helping me.”

Would you like to “really help” someone in need? Contact your library and ask about a local literacy group. Most organizations desperately need donations and volunteers. Nationally, you can contact www.ProLiteracy.org. You really can make a difference.

Meanwhile, please pray that I learn to visit the right bathroom. This could be embarrassing!

Saturday, October 9, 2010

A Really, Really Bad Day!!

Sometimes, you are better off just staying in bed. I recently received the following prayer request:

“Rev. Larry, it has been a BEAR of a day to be sure! I recently received a ticket for an expired inspection sticker. Unfortunately, in the midst of other problems, losing my job, divorce and being forced to move, I totally forgot about it! Yesterday, I received a notice that my license had been suspended! So, I promptly went down to the courthouse to pay the fine.”

“A police officer pulled me over because I was also driving with an expired license plate. I told him where I'd been and where I was headed. He said he'd have to check on it. He came back and told me he was sorry but he was going to have to give me another ticket and he was being nice not to take me to JAIL! He asked if I knew anyone to call who would come and pick me up because I could not drive away.”

“Larry, I told him that I didn't know anyone because I was new to the area. He said to think about it while he was writing the ticket. (As if a friend would materialize out of nowhere!) So I sat there and thought. After writing the ticket, he asked if I thought of anyone to call. I explained to him for the fourth time about my divorce, being forced to move and that I didn't have anyone's number in the area. He said, "Too Bad, I can't take you. So. good luck" and drove away while it was raining! Thankfully, a nice lady eventually offered a ride. What a day! Larry, please pray for me!”

(Note: I checked with several police officers who made it clear this was not normal procedure. None of them would have abandoned her under any circumstance excluding emergency.)

Have you ever had days, months or even years that start bad -- and then get worse? Where your problems don’t just add up -- they multiply? When you think you’ve finally reached the floor of difficulties only to discover a basement of woe? Of course you have! Me too! It’s hard to avoid.

So, how can God help us deal with those inevitable, really bad days?

The Apostle Peter wrote a letter to a church feeling the harsh sting of persecution. Overwhelmed and devastated this struggling Christian community was pleading for help. In other words, they were dealing with some really bad days. What could Peter write to ease their suffering; to provide hope in the midst of suffering? The answer may surprise you.

“Be truly glad! There is wonderful joy ahead, even though it is necessary for you to endure many trials for a while. These trials are only to test your faith, to show that it is strong and pure. It is being tested as fire purifies gold – and your faith is far more precious to God than mere gold. So if your faith remains strong after being tried by fiery trials, it will bring you much praise and glory and honor on the day when Jesus Christ is revealed to the whole world. (1 Peter 1:6-7) 

Be truly glad while enduring a really bad day? Are you crazy? Maybe… but I found four crucial lessons that offer enduring hope:

  1. Really bad days must be endured but there is a promise of joy ahead.
  2. Really bad days strengthen your faith just as fire purifies gold.
  3. Really bad days in God’s eyes produce a tested faith that is more precious than gold.
  4. Really bad days will bring you much praise and glory and honor in heaven.

How many honors we receive: our accomplishments, our financial rewards, our years of service don’t seem to matter near as much to God as a tested faith strengthened and purified by our pain and struggle. In other words, how each of us learns to cope with really bad days often shapes our outlook on life and defines our relationship with God. How we overcome really bad days represents our witness to the outside world.

Is it easy? Of course not! This is why we need to continually pursue a deeper relationship with God. The comfort is that the really bad days will all be forgotten as we bask in the praise and glory and honor of heaven. That’s enough to get me out of bed in the morning -- how about you?

Thursday, October 7, 2010

1-800-2-Heaven

Children have a way of asking the most interesting questions. Many years ago, I was busy studying when my then eleven-year-old son, Stephen, walked into the office and asked: “Dad, why did you become a minister?”

Great question so I thought a moment and answered: “I received a ‘call’ from God.” 

He obviously wasn’t satisfied: “What does that mean? Did God call you on the telephone?”

I paused for dramatic effect, smiled and said, “Yes, God called me on the telephone.”

Stephen said with a trace of a giggle: “What telephone number did God use: 1-800-HEAVEN?”

I mentally counted out the letters and answered, “That’s close, but the actual phone number to God is 1-800-2HEAVEN!” At that, Stephen grinned and left the room while I continued reading.

A few minutes later, my mischievous son came back into the room with a twinkle in his eye and a huge smile on his face: “I called 1-800-2HEAVEN. Do you want to know what happened?”

Quickly putting down my book, I said: “I’ve got to hear this!”

"I called 1-800-2HEAVEN and then a voice said they were closed but please call back between the hours of 8:00 AM and 5:00 PM Monday through Friday.”

After we finished laughing, we both concluded, God does answer “Calls,” but only Monday through Friday from 8 to 5.

OK. After you finish smiling, the question remains: “Does God really ‘call’ us?”

Yes, of course, but don’t take my word for it. If you do a word search in the Bible you will find that the word, “call” or “called” or “calling” appears in the Bible over 700 times. Here are a few examples:

  • Are you looking for answers to tough questions? “Seek the Lord while He may be found; call on Him while He is near. (Isaiah 55:6)
  • Do you wonder if God hears your cry for help? “I call on you, O God, for you will answer me; give ear to me and hear my prayer.” (Ps 17:6)
  • Do you need to know God forgives you? “But I call to God, and the Lord saves me.” (Ps 55:16)
  • Are you feeling poorly? “Is any one of you sick? He should call the elders of the church to pray over him.” (James 5:14)
  • Do you feel unworthy of hearing God’s call? “Jesus said: ‘It is not the healthy, who need a doctor, but the sick. I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners.” (Mark 2:17)
  • Are you wondering what God has planned for you? “For God did not call us to be impure, but to live a holy life.” (1 Thessalonians 4:7)

Are  you looking for answers? Seek the Lord. Do you wonder if God hears you? God will answer. Do you need to know God can and will forgive you? God saves you. Are you feeling poorly? God has people who will help you. Do you feel unworthy? You are the one God wants most of all. Are you wondering what God could possibly have planned for you? God wants you to live for God.

In other words, you don’t need to call 1-800-2Heaven. Simply, find your Bible and look through a few of the more than 700 specific instances where God calls you, wants you and specifically seeks you out. God hears you, loves you, forgives you and will answer you. That is a promise from God.  

Just out of curiosity as I was rewriting this column I called 1-800-2HEAVEN and received yet another recording. This time a sweet, soft voice replied: “Heavenly Mountain Resorts” and then offered to sell tickets for a theme park which happily promised a heavenly good time.

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“I am truly grateful for all of the Lord's blessings on our family. I am living with a painful health condition and I am praying for a full recovery soon. My husband is looking for work and his unemployment benefits are about to run out. In the meantime, I am working very hard to keep our bills paid, but I'm becoming very weary. I ask that you pray for me to gather the strength to continue until my husband is back to work and that he will find a job soon.” – Jodee from London, Ontario

Speaking of Calling God: Did you know that Sowing Seeds Ministry has a worldwide prayer ministry where you can ask for and receive prayer requests from all over the world just like the prayer request shown above? Better yet, you can also have the option of sending an email directly to the person requesting prayer and offer words of encouragement. For more information click here: http://www.sowingseedsoffaith.com/sign-up.htm

Monday, October 4, 2010

Church Groups Still Making A Difference After Hurricane Katrina

The last time, I travelled to Biloxi, Mississippi was with a group bringing relief supplies days after Hurricane Katrina devastated the Gulf Coast. This time I returned with another group to build a new house and I had the opportunity to see how much the area changed during the four years since Katrina.
Biloxi has changed but not enough. At first glance there were visible signs of prosperity. Glitzy casinos advertised the latest payout and featured entertainers. There were shopping malls, gift shops and restaurants everywhere.
But there was something else – something different, that you couldn’t help but notice.
For example: Beside a brand new Waffle House was an abandoned lot of a former business. In between a casino and a novelty shop were empty properties, each with the concrete foundation and all surrounded by weeds. Everywhere you travelled you saw signs of normalcy beside images of tragedy.
For me, it was a visible reminder of how much the area still needs help. The stamp of Katrina is still prevalent throughout the area. Beach front property once occupied by stately old mansions now contained a few new houses but also trailers; government issued MEMA cottages and abandoned lots.
“There is no middle ground,” said David Cumbest, pastor of Heritage United Methodist Church near Biloxi. “Everywhere you turn there are signs of prosperity and signs of poverty. Most of us would still be in MEMA cottages if not for the work of churches all over the country.”
David should know. For the past four years, his church housed literally thousands of church volunteers who come from all over the country to either repair existing homes or build new ones. The upstairs education building has been converted to house volunteers. In addition, a bunk house complete with showers, kitchen and a gathering room was built behind the church. Supplies are stored in two warehouses nearby. All in all, nearly 100 volunteers live, work and are supplied at this one church.
Church groups from all over the country still go to the Gulf Coast of Mississippi and New Orleans each week to help rebuild the area but truthfully, this is not the only reason why so many groups make the long journey and work so hard to help people they don’t even know. It feels good to help someone else but each person that goes receives far more in return than they ever provide in construction labor alone.
For example, our work group from the Lynchburg area was made up of local preachers, retired professionals and a few who took a week’s vacation from active careers. During the fourteen hours cooped up in vehicles we shared stories, swapped a few jokes and basically got to know each other.
We left Saturday and arrived Sunday morning in time for worship at Heritage United Methodist Church. At one point we were asked by, Rev. David Cumbest, the pastor to stand and receive the applause and prayers of a grateful congregation and community.
Each day our group along with three others shared food and cooking duties. After breakfast we packed a bag lunch for the work day.
The Lynchburg group is part of multi church effort to build a new house for Jeanie Lowery. Ms. Lowery and her father (who has passed on) lived in a house in Ocean Spring, Mississippi. Since the devastation of the home by Hurricane Katrina she now lives in a MEMA cottage which she along with thousands of other people will lose soon. Jeanie is 52 years old, disabled due to back problems.
On the work site we were assigned jobs to match experience. Carpenters were soon installing crown molding and building a deck while those of us less experienced were installing flooring or painting. For me, that meant – painting. In the midst of the work, Jeanie often joined us providing snacks, expressing appreciation and occasionally telling stories of her experiences during Hurricane Katrina.
Each night, we returned to the church to clean up and eat dinner. After eating the groups gathered for devotions and to share their experiences and what they meant.
During one session, a retired University Professor named Jim stood and shared his struggles with finding a meaningful relationship with God. “God seems to talk to others,” he said. “Why won’t he talk to me?” Shortly after retirement his wife unexpectedly died of cancer. Devastated by the loss, Jim described his struggle with grief but also spoke of the many friends who surrounded him with love. His brother called him frequently asking the same question: “Are you all right? Are you really all right?”
Frustrated, with his constant nagging, Jim finally asked: “What do you want me to do?” His brother suggested he start a Bible study. “A Bible Study? Why would I do that?” Jim responded. He himself did not understand what prompted him to say, “Yes.” Yet, it was the men’s Bible study and breakfast Jim started that helped him discover God had been talking to him all along. While helping others understand the Bible, Jim deepened his own relationship with God. Clear proof of God’s handiwork was evidenced by the men surrounding Jim that night who were all in Mississippi because of his Bible study. Later, one of our men commented: “It was worth coming to Mississippi just to hear Jim.”
On our final evening in Mississippi, we celebrated with dinner at a local restaurant so we could sample the famous Cajun Cuisine. (Delicious!) The next morning we left the Gulf Coast satisfied that we helped build a house for Jeanie Lowery. But on the long drive back we discovered that Jeanie was not the only one who was benefiting from our trip. We too were given a special gift of knowing we provided help for someone in need. We made a lot of new friends and best of all – we deepened our faith in God.
Jesus said, “What is the Kingdom of God like? How can I illustrate it? It is like a tiny mustard seed that a man planted in a garden; it grows and becomes a tree, and the birds make nests in its branches.” He also asked, “What else is the Kingdom of God like? It is like the yeast a woman used in making bread. Even though she put only a little yeast in three measures of flour, it permeated every part of the dough.” (Luke 13:18-21)
I like to think that our mission trip, like thousands of others was part of a tiny mustard seed that grows and becomes a tree or yeast that permeates every part of the dough. In our own way, we made a difference for someone, for a community and most of all for God and for ourselves.

Sunday, October 3, 2010

$7. 43 -- Challenged Again - Answers

I faced a dilemma. Several years ago, a mother needing $7.43 for baby food taught critical lessons about being more alert to God-given opportunities to help others. Recently, I received another chance to help a couple wanting a ride to church but they were too far away and I suspected a con. That seemed to be the end of it but later that evening while teaching a Bible study in walked the very same couple. Now what do I do?

Once the others left, we talked. They recently moved back to this area after he lost his job. Now they were here with no job, no car, few possessions and nowhere to go. The Bible is very clear about helping others: "Suppose you see a brother or sister who needs food or clothing and you say, "Well good-bye and God bless you; stay warm and eat well' but then you don't give that person any food or clothing. What good does that do?" (James 2:15-16)

Later that night, I found myself saying to them: “Why don't we settle you in for the night in the local motel and tomorrow we'll see what we can do?”

“Thank you,” they both said, “but our stuff is at a hotel in another town.”

So, the three of us left the church late that night to pick up their belongings and transport them to a hotel near our church. During the drive, I learned they both had family in the area but were no longer welcome in either home. Over the last few weeks, they lived in various hotels and shelters supplied by a network of churches and organizations. We were now the church looking after their needs but in a few days, they would probably move on to other hotels and other organizations.

We could certainly supply their immediate needs for a day or two but then what? They needed a job but possessed very few skills. Even if they found employment, how would they get to work? They had no car and could not even legally drive. I was being given a valuable lesson on the difficulty of helping someone climb out of extreme poverty. Providing temporary shelter and a few meals was certainly a nice gesture but wouldn't begin to solve their ongoing problems.

I was providing a band aid for someone in need of open heart surgery. I must do better.

The next morning, I started making phone calls and found an agency willing to help the couple find work while another promised long term shelter. Social services agreed to meet with them and find other benefits. Prospects for the couple were looking brighter so I sent a volunteer to pick them up.

Minutes later, the volunteer called back saying, they had bad experiences at the shelter and didn’t like the work offered by this agency. In short, they were unwilling to leave the hotel. Now what?

Feeling sorry for their situation, the volunteer paid for them to stay another night in the hotel. I agreed but asked the volunteer to warn them we could provide no more help. For several more days, they found other churches to pay their hotel bill and bring food but I knew it couldn’t last.

Proverbs 10:13 reminds me of another painful reality of poverty: “If you love sleep, you will end in poverty. Keep your eyes open and there will be plenty to eat.” In other words, there is only so much an individual or an institution can do to help someone in need.

Critical choices must also be made by those seeking help: “are you looking for a handout or a helping hand?”

Taking full advantage of the creature comforts offered by the motel, this couple only wanted handouts but the willingness of people and churches offering aid was dwindling fast.   

One week after our first meeting, at the same Bible study the couple showed up again but this time they were willing to make serious choices. A relative in another state agreed to provide a place to stay and help them find employment if we would find a way get them there.

Later that same evening both of them boarded a greyhound bus with a smile on their faces and hope in their hearts.

Although this particular story had a reasonably hopeful ending, I learned that people dealing with poverty are not so easily helped. As individuals and as churches we often supply band aids for people who need major surgery. We as God’s people are given a Holy calling to do much more.

I also learned that people in poverty must make critical choices to assist themselves before our helping hand can be effective.

The continuing lesson of $7.43 is that God is calling us to be alert for opportunities to make a difference in the community around us. How will you respond?

Friday, October 1, 2010

$7. 43 -- Challenged Again - Readers Respond

"A couple of weeks ago I took my family to see London. As we were coming down the stairs at Westminster Bridge there was a homeless man begging for money.  Without thinking I pulled my son near to protect him. Only then I realized that my instant reaction was entirely wrong. I treated that man like he was about to attack rather than needing help. We later tried to find him to offer food but he had gone. I felt even sadder that I missed my opportunity to help." Muralitharan

Recently, I faced a dilemma. A couple appeared at our church and asked for help. Although originally from our area they recently moved back after he lost his job: Now they were here with no car, not even a license to drive, virtually no possessions and nowhere to go. Was I handed an opportunity to help a couple in need or was I being conned?

“Suppose you see a brother or sister who needs food or clothing and you say, “Well good-bye and God bless you; stay warm and eat well' but then you don't give that person any food or clothing. What good does that do?” (James 2:15-16) Since publishing this story, I’ve received dozens of emails filled with stories, advice and prayers. Here is an edited sampling.

"My husband and I were like that couple and amazingly we had almost all positive experiences as we ‘lived by faith’ for a year. One couple took us home for a steak dinner and opened her closet and told me to, ‘take anything I need.’ Some churches were incredibly prepared to help those in need. In Salt Lake City, a ministry offered clothes, an opportunity to help feed the homeless on Christmas Day and a job if we stayed there. The only 'negative' reaction was when we hadn't bathed for awhile and my husband asked at a church if he could use the washroom. The pastor looked him up and down and said it was not a public washroom. We got cleaned up at a camp nearby. On Sunday, we dressed up for the service. The same pastor came over and told my husband he looked familiar, 'did they meet before somewhere?'" Pat

"A guy approached me at a restaurant and asked for food. I told him to sit down and I'd pay for lunch. He seemed hesitant at first, then thanked me and sat down. I had the clerk come over and told him to take the guy's order. The clerk tried to ‘help’ me by refusing but I insisted. He ordered a hamburger; that's all. I asked if he'd like fries. He said yes. Then I asked about something to drink. He said, 'just water.' But I asked if he'd like a soda and he said yes. The manager told the man to leave and not come back after eating lunch. The man thanked me for helping him. I felt that I lunched with God. I've never regretted helping someone who was hungry." Lisa

"Like you, I would've been skeptical. I would've felt terrible seeing them walk in when I doubted their intentions. Sometimes I find myself doing for others less fortunate and I teach my children the importance because we're all 'one paycheck' away from needing help. What I need to work on is consistently helping and not judging along the way: that's not my role."  Tracie

"We should be wise as a serpent and gentle as a dove. It's better to be gullible than cynical. I've given money to someone who was probably a con (but don't regret it). I've offered food to beggars instead of money (and been sworn at). My problem is that I do a mental risk assessment before doing anything. Jesus calls us to lay down our life rather than do a risk assessment." Mark

"I met a family who just moved in. When I went to get the kids some food there was little there. The next day after church, my son Max and I went to the store and bought everything from paper towels to peanut butter. We delivered the food and they were surprised! Things were tight and they needed help. Now if a single Mom and five year old son can do that imagine what an entire church could do. Hope this helps others to realize if I can do it so can they. Rachael & Max

"I think every opportunity is a way to show forth God's goodness even when you're being taken for a ride. I know situations where people came to cheat and end up being saved." Victoria

"Other than money, I guess we could give them jobs to do in church, like cleaning etc---at the same time monitoring and not forgetting to keep them covered in prayers and teaching the Word of GOD, and loving them. It's good to be discerning and wise concerning strangers. I understand the difficult decision you have to make. I look forward to reading next week’s answer." Molly

Next: Larry shares the rest of the story and provides his own answers for taking action.